Never did it just wondering what all you think?
2006-12-26 04:34:42 · 21 answers · asked by complex1simple 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
In my opinion, every person (male or female) has had this "fantasy", even if it was for a split second.
All humans are self-centered and selfish, even if a little bit.
So a sexual situation in which, you get twice as much attention, than in a regular one-on-one intercourse, will, at least get your curiosity going.
There is no shame in being curious, so basically the "3some" idea is natural, and doesn't make you a whore or a man-whore.
Do I think it would work for people in a relationship? No, unless both of you don't give a rat's *** about each other.
It goes back to being selfish, and wanting to share.
It will always stay in your head, and you will wonder, whether your partner enjoyed the "guest" more than your company.
And your partner will be going through the same thing.
It's kind of like cheating (which, even though voluntarily, technically is), no matter how many times you'll apologize, and stop messing around, the complete trust will never be there again.
2006-12-26 05:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are a lot of serious STDs going around and i don't think a 3some is good at all for a relationship, but some people like to be adventurous and that be the ones to act on it as soon as they have a chance at it, but if u think about all the STDs going around which some of them a uncurable... you will have second thoughts about it.
2006-12-26 04:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by Mrz`J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I personally know that 2 individual that was into that type of sexual activity is no longer into it because they're both dead from full blown AIDS! So if that's the mission you're on or thinking about being on, I wouldn't suggest it. Also condoms break they're not 100% safe either. Know your partner or partners and who they're partnering with. I worked in a hospital for years and trust me, the Infectious Disease Department is always open because they're always relocating people downstairs inside the Morgue!
2006-12-26 04:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Done it a few times... always two girls and me... and always my gf and her best friend.
Its good and bad... lots of performance pressure on the guy... got two girls to get off... and paying attention to two women at the same time can be difficult. Only got one tongue, one cock, and two hands... spreading them out over two girls can be a challenge.
And then there's how the girls react... sometimes well, sometimes not well... in my experience the gf suddenly gets the urge to have sex a LOT in the week or so after you've been with the two... I guess its some sort of possessive thing...
Overall, I think it improves the guys relationship with the gf's best friend... and it can bring you and your gf closer (which seems weird)...
But - the downside is that the two ladies can get competitive and nasty towards one another... which leads to three way conflicts....
And it takes a lot of energy to meet the emotional needs of two beautiful women... Unless you can strike a balance of some sort between the three of you, you end up having to make a choice between the two, or they run off together...
Just my .01
-dh
2006-12-26 04:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Threesomes are various relaxing, yet as i glance in any respect of the different solutions I see various jealousy and persons who're in straightforward terms prepared to do a threesome in the event that they do no longer seem to be "emotionally linked" to the folk in touch. in my view i believe that each and every physique human beings ought to learn how to pass beyond the ego; in different words enable pass of the ego. as quickly as you have executed that, there's no such ingredient as jealousy. while you're in a alluring, loving courting, you know it. you do no longer want any "protection" (extra like limits on freedom) to coach it. i think of a threesome is a alluring ingredient. 2 or 3 females and a guy...various relaxing and keenness can happen there. i'm undecided approximately 2 adult adult males and a woman..i've got by no skill experienced it in the previous. i could be prepared to purpose however ; ]
2016-11-23 17:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all three know what they are doing are mature and like it why not but if theres doubt better to avoid rather than live with the regret of letting yourself be coerced into something you dont want .
2006-12-26 04:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its tough if two of them are in a relationship, someone always gets jealous. Think about it though, if you were one of the ones in the relationship, wouldn't you wonder why your partner didn't get at least a little bit jealous?
2006-12-26 04:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by smoothie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good only if all 3 of them participate. Not just 2 people do it and 1 standing there waiting for his/her turn.
2006-12-26 07:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by dark&pure? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First 2 women and one guy then to guys and one woman...If the women get together she'll might want to see you together with him.What goes around comes around..Be ready..LOL Have a happy Nude year...
2006-12-26 04:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, my round of golf is shorter when I play in a threesome rather than a foursome since we don't have that fourth guy slowing us down.
2006-12-26 04:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋