How is the "married sex" after 10, 20 years of marriage? Can it still be erotic and exciting?

Answer 1

I have been married for well over 13 years and the sex has become better in our last couple years! There have been lulls on both of our parts through the years, BUT we have worked through them and now we are better able to communicate about what we like and want. It's awesome!

Answer 2

Over 2 decades of marriage and having 20+ close married friends and dozens of married business associates - I would say 6 out of every 7 guys complain of virtually no sex after marriage. Virtually none. Begging, pleading, demanding, plying with alcohol, asking, etc. all lead to stress for men.

This sexual drive mis-match, which is made worse I believe by women who misrepresent their sex drive before marriage, can be extremely stressful on a relationship.

The 1 in 7 report great sex, but for most guys, it's a nightmare of frustration after marriage.

Answer 3

It can be, but even in the early years of marriage sex goes through swings of very exciting and erotic to very dull and boring. I think over the years, the swings get longer, and some couples give up durring a long "dull and boring" swing.

Answer 4

short answer is absolutely yes.

there are some definate benefits to 24 years of marriage that you don't even experience in dating. First off, there's a genuine and mutual trust and respect for each other. The kids are older so we have more time to concentrate on our desires and to explore new things. And there is no need to aspire to a sex superstar...sometimes 5 minutes is just as wonderful as 50. best of all, you understand that intercourse isn't necessary for wonderful sex. it starts with a smile. and a look.

Answer 5

according to me Married sex is legally allowed... but I think sex at any age should be nice...

It cant be excutung nor it can be erotic... but most important thing is that whether you love that person or not...

I do not know much because I am still a bachelor

Answer 6

yeah it can be, there needs to be creativity in order for sex to still feel erotic even after that long time of marriage

Answer 7

I think it all depends on the couple. If you, pardon the pun, "lay" the foundation early on, there is no reason why the sex can't become even better. The key is to do the work early on and build upon this as the years go by.

Answer 8

You can make the married sex as interesting as you want it to be.
Good thing that you might consider is taking time away and spending a weekend away from children.
Grandparents sometimes like to have them over for a visit
you could spend time at home with the children spending time away.
All you want is what you put into it.
making it what you want it to be.
AngelBlessings

Answer 9

I think it really depends on many factors...It depends on if you have kids, how many kids, how well you are aging and how you appear to your spouse, the status of your relationship etc...

In my case, we've been married for almost ten years but we have kids together. He works crazy hours and I have had alot of medical problems. Needless to say our sex life went fizzle, fizzle, sputter, sputter years ago! I am amazed we ended up with so many kids with our sex life being as it is! People assume we screw like rabbits but it is just the opposite....

I think everything completely depends on the couple...I wish we had sex...good sex LOL....

Answer 10

It is good.I have been with my hubby 17 years and married 15 of them.I actually think has gotten better over the years.