me and my cousin were messing about on the internet a few days ago when we saw a link to a dating website.
as we were drunk we thought we'd have a look at the single people from the local area to see if we knew anyone.
we was about to leave the site when we spotted our friends girlfriend.
and she was wearing hardly anything.
the pic must be recent as she only had her hair cut short a few weeks ago.
should we tell him?
2006-12-26 04:22:10 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
how funny........yes tell him
2006-12-26 04:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO - he may already know and have chosen to ignore it and you would then put him in a difficult position ; he might also fall out with you. The person you should take it up with is the person herslf (and not tell the entire gossipy neighbourhood). You could make a joke of it when you see her and say exactly what you have said here but just that she has an absloute double rather than saying that you have seen her. This gives her chance to put things right in the best way for her. If your friend does find out for himself, act thick.
2006-12-26 04:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by D B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are in a bad situation because in all likelyhood, by doing the right thing, everyone will end up mad at you. There are two ways to handle choose the one that suits you best.
1. Go to her and tell her that you found her post. Tell her she has 48 hours to tell him. Print out the site and tell her you will mail it to him if she doesn't.
2. Next time you are all together, ask her about it in front of him. "Why have you got a post on a website without your clothes?"
Good Luck!
2006-12-26 04:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by onenonblonde 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well yes if I was you I would tell him, he deserves to know about that! But also you should bear in mind that he might not like being told and may not believe you. The best thing is to show him proof that you saw her. Its such a pity really. I hope all goes well and he believes you.
2006-12-26 05:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by wiccanfairiekitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! such things happen really confusing, i can understand. But 1stly, how their relationship? Do u knw his GF? ask her wat's wrong rather den telling ur fren 1st, as a gentleman, i guess he will fainted if his belover doing such things. Or mayb could b a prank played by others? Discuss w ur cousin, 2 brains work beta den one.
2006-12-26 04:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by kudos Qi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! Don't tell him! But tell her that she's been seen on the website and let her know that if you've seen her, so will others and her boyfriend will soon find out about it. There's obviously a problem between them and it is up to them both to sort it out.
2006-12-26 04:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by reader19492003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
eek you could always wait until your friend comes over and then go on line....and accidentally on purpose go onto the site?
I'm not really sure if I could tell someone or not...kinda awkward I guess. But that's possibly how I would get round to letting him know.
Hope things work out!
2006-12-26 04:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by Em 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ever heard the statement "shoot the messenger"? say nothing.... but there is nothing stopping you from keeping tabs on her and if you do suspect something,,tell HER you know,,she may be messing around and he knows all about it,,she may just need the attention,,(some women do you know)it could be anything,,,,,your friend may already be wondering about her antics online and be waiting for something evident to crop up,,,he may not like the idea you know about his relationship and the fact he is "cheated"on,,leave them to it,,,she can always be taken to one side later.
2006-12-26 04:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by lex 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just email him the link of her ad from the site and leave the rest up to him ;-)
2006-12-26 04:27:00 · answer #9 · answered by magiclovepl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would confront her first. Maybe it's an old account or something. Have it printed or at least the sitepage written down in case she denies it. Go from there. Good Luck. ;-)
2006-12-26 04:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah he should def know about it, it isnt fair on him if she is cheating. Maybe try and get him to look at the site and find out for him self. then at the end of the day its up to him to ask her about it and decide what he wants to do.
2006-12-26 04:24:54 · answer #11 · answered by piknik86 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋