i have this friend so i think she is ??? well anyway i used to talk to her everyday by text by phone and she even visited, untill one night i caught my hubby and her trying to kiss...but i was still friends with her for a while but i don't want anything to do with her anymore in fear of this happening again cause i don't know if she tried to kiss him or if he tried kissing him. she wears tight little outfits when shes does come over this why i don't want to be friends anymore and she wondrers why so am i being mean ??? i don't think i am cause now my hubby and i are working on our marriage...
2006-12-26 04:07:00 · 6 answers · asked by ♥♥ lou lou ♥♥ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get rid of her she not a good friend if shes trying to get with your husband. If you keep her as your friend and coming around your house she's just a temptation for your husband, how do you expect to fix your relationship when the problem is coming to your house.
2006-12-26 04:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by sikchux 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Work on your marriage, but watch your back. Also, I would cut her off - regardless of who started the kiss, the bottom line is that there was and likely still is an attraction there and if your trying to work on saving your marriage, you don't need that. Good luck to you.
2006-12-26 12:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by [><] Rebel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not being mean, you're being smart. Tell her why. Tell her she tried to kiss your husband, for God sake! Of course you wouldn't want a "friend" like that hanging around. I would have beat her @ss, so she got off easy, I think. Just tell her you thought you could get over it, but you can't, and it's better for her to just stay away.
2006-12-26 12:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a darn mess! More than likely, your husband is hitting on her. Ask your husband what is going on. Don't throw away a perfectly good friendship just because your husband is acting like a jerk. He will just do the same thing with a new friend.
2006-12-26 12:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get a keylogger and document his online activities. If he is doing this right under your nose you need to get rid of him. oh and lose the friend.
2006-12-26 12:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by Reisnoh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not being mean at all. KEEP her out of you life and hubbys too
2006-12-28 11:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by majean52 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋