the problem is, I dont want to move on, I still love her alot and I love my family. She is no longer in love with me, how do I know that anyone will ever love me again.
2006-12-26 03:53:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im sorry this is happening to you.
2006-12-26 03:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You ask how do you know anyone will ever love you again. You don't. I'm very sorry about what your going through, but I challenge you to take a hard honest look at you marriage and evaluate what behaviors on your part led to the break up. Once you take ownership you can make changes so you won't make the same mistakes in your future relationships. Divorce is not the end of the world and your family can still be a family after this split, just with a different dynamic. Good luck.
2006-12-26 04:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by genuine1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 00:11:53 · answer #3 · answered by swett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on because she doesn't want you. There is nothing you can do when a person no longer wants to be with you. Nothing. All you can do is live your life. Don't judge the next woman based on your past. Your wife hurt you however, that doesn't mean that the next woman will hurt you. You have to allow yourself to be loved and open yourself to loving someone else. It take time. Everyone has been hurt because that's a part of life. I know it doesn't seem like it now because your are hurting but in time you'll heal and you'll fall in love again. However, you have to try and try again and love will come. You have to believe in yourself.
Good luck.
2006-12-26 04:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's painful, and I'm sorry that anyone would have to go through that. Just hold on, there will be someone better for you, I know it doesn't seem like it when your heart is hurting and you feel like your body is collapsing...but there is someone for you. Work on doing things that make you happy, maybe join a bookstore discussion group if you like books, if you like cars and such...go to some car shows, maybe save up for that car you've always wanted, get with friends..maybe get with a friend that will
listen to your hurt for a while and can offer good advice.There are so many things you can do, you're not ready for another relationship, you need to heal from this one first, then you'll be open to love and it'll find you.
2006-12-26 04:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by mirmade13 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i too did not want to move on, loved my ex, but i realized waiting and hoping would not bring him back. so i left after my divorce, but i knew there was a life out there for me, knew i would find someone, u just have to know the lord won't leave u alone forever, and he will give u someone to love. but having confidence in a woman who says she is done with u, is very foolish and u can wait and hope all u want but u need to face reality here, and let her go ,and you go find a new love, if She says she is not in love with you, than she must be in love with the other man, so let her go, as u really can't change her mind, or make her see the love you have for her in your heart, she is too into whatever made her say she wasn't in love with u anymore. move on even if it hurts, it doesn't hurt forever, just a while.
2006-12-26 10:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different and will deal with this differently. I am on my fourth marriage, each time one ended i would swear to never make that mistake again.But like you said when its done its done. And you will move on. The mistake that I made is I pushed that part,(moving on) It takes a long time to heal and the worst thing that you can so is be thinking about finding someone elce right now. Take the time you need to heal, and you will find out that its ok to be alone during that time, or with friends. And when the time is right and you want to date someone because you like her and not because you just lonley you will find out that it turns out alot better. You will have alot more to offer someone when your heart isn't still broken. no one is good company when there heart is with someone elce. Good luck.
2006-12-26 04:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you didin't say why you ere splitting so ..... give her some space and see what happens instead of a divorce try a legal separation. And as far as someone else loving you; does that concern you more then losing your wife because if so. It's not your wife you fear losing, but you fear being alone.
2006-12-26 04:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it seems like your life is over...that's how everyone feels when a relationship ends...but you will move on and you will be happy, it just may take awhile. and yes, you WILL find somebody to love you again, when the timing is right. if you screwed it up big time with your wife the only thing you can do now is to learn from your mistake and not to mess it up again with the next woman who comes along. good luck honey and god bless!!
2006-12-26 03:57:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They probably still love you now but need to do what they need to do. It is also too soon to worry about that now. Take the time to find yourself again, rebuild you life and find happiness in what is there.
You will have down times sure, but you need to realize that just like someone in your family dying, life moves on and you need to move with it.
2006-12-26 03:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by spitfin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just back off and give her some space. Let her know that you love her and will always be there for her. And that you are backing off because you are allowing her sometime to herself to reevaluate the situation and the commitment you guys made through your vows.
2006-12-26 04:14:49 · answer #11 · answered by They Love ME......... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋