How come mothers never tell women without children about all?

Question

the nasty stuff of child bearing? They tell the nice fluffy stuff, but not he gross crap?

Answer 1

My friend who has 2 kids goes into graphic detail with me talking about pushing on her belly to get the plecenta out and the tearing and everything- she says there's no better birth control than the knowledge of exactly what you can get yourself into!

Answer 2

The first real problem is the heartburn and peeing all the time when your belly gets to big and starts pushing other organs out of the way. The second problem is the horible cramping in your lower back. It feels like someone twisting a knife in there. Taking the muscle and turning it inside out and upside down. Then After the painful muscle spasms. There is the horrible stretch marks, the never wearing a bikini again body, the period that lasts forever while you have this THING that demands to be fed and changed EVERY two hours. Then if it's got colic it cries like ALL the time and for about the first four months you don't get ANY sleep. It spits up crap that looks like curdled milk and it poops out stuff that even your dog would shun(dog's eat crap). If it's a boy it can pee on you with a smile on his face. Oh and if you don't have three hands you might have to catch the wee one as he rolls off of the changing table before you get his diaper on. Oh and then they grow up and yell and fight with their siblings. They won't do their homework. They learn to drive and roll the car over three times or get pregnant and you must start all over again.

Answer 3

Because the nice fluffy stuff (the baby) is the important part, all that other stuff is peripheral. If you really ask a Mom for the gory details, most will tell all, but in the end all the work, effort and trouble is worth it for the baby!

Answer 4

Your mom has some really vast themes she needs to resolve.She feels to blame about leaving you once you've been youthful. She may even remorseful about her determination now. She thinks pushing you away is the reply out of sight out of concepts type of problem. She needs to envision with a specialist about this. you want your mom today of your existence. Do you've youthful ones? if so that they are lacking out too. She really does choose help to artwork through this concern. solid success and God bless you sound like an noticeably effective man or woman and that i hate this is going on on your existence now.

Answer 5

because woman as a hole, knowing what they know want to make motherhood continue on, give them pride and hope that what they are attempting is a joyish and wonderful expereince- even though deep down we all know what to expect in the end, a bowl full of cherrios thrown in our face. Yeah those will be the good times...

Answer 6

not really needed i had a class called child development! and i guess once i have a kid and go through all that pain and gross stuff! once i see that LIFE is hear because of me!
well i'm selfish i may forget about the grossy painfull parts
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Answer 7

My mother told me all of the gross stuff. It is better for the girl to know so she can be prepared for childbearing.

Answer 8

they really don't need to know just yet my 14 year old knows all the " gross crap " our 4 year old knows he came out of my belly we are leaving it at that until he is old enough to know better.

Answer 9

I don't know; I just wanted tell you thats a nice dress and It looks great on you.

Answer 10

Happy Holidays. =)