I like masturbating to gay porn, and doing sexual things with men anonymously, but I can’t see myself ever kissing a man, or having a relationship beyond sex. I like kissing woman and I am a HUGE flirt...what am i gay, straight, bi?
2006-12-26 03:25:37 · 16 answers · asked by joe b 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are bi, but mostly straight. It's normal and I don't think anyone should be ashamed of it. Just because you are sexually attracted to men and homosexual acts, doesn't mean that you are all out gay, it just means that turns you on. You don't have to start having relationships with men beyond sex. Many women love watching woman on woman porn, but they don't want to sleep with another woman. They love their men and the penis :)
Don't stress so much about it. Just do what feels right to you.
2006-12-26 03:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are Bi. As long as you realise this and don't have a problem w/ it, then I wouldn't worry. I think alot of men are raised to view being gay as somehow bad or abnormal (hence the reluctance to allow themselves to feel romantic w/ another man). It is also harder to have an open relationship w/ another man in our society (because alot of people are against this and let it be known). I would suggest you find the one PERSON that you can have it all with (sex, romance and relationship) whether it is a man or a woman.
2006-12-26 11:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lorenz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either bi -- or equally likely -- gay with a tremendous sense of confusion and fear of your own sexuality.
You say you can't see yourself kissing a man or having a relationship -- why? Do you have no interest OR is there tremendous fear -- fear of what will happen and fear of what others will think?
Be honest with yourself.
Then honestly assess what you think of when you masturbate -- is it mostly guys?
Homosexuality relates to sexual preference, not to culturally derived desires. If you prefer males for sex, whether you like to flirt with girls and kiss them or not -- you are gay. If you really just like your dick sucked and think about girls all the time while that is happening (naturally think about them, not by force) then you are straight and just like sex. If you think about and desire both equally or nearly equally -- you are bi.
Kindest thoughts, *hug*
Reyn
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2006-12-26 12:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bi, but you don't even want to admit it to yourself. But let me get this straight, you'll give a guy oral, but wont kiss him? That is probably just a mental issue because one bodily fluid is worse than the other, so that's just a mental block. I would guess anyway that its like trying to kiss an ugly girl, I just wouldn't be able to do it.
2006-12-26 11:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by Lou 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty bi to me
2006-12-26 12:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say bi, you like to have sexual encounters with both sexes... that would make you bisexual!
2006-12-26 11:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by LaurenLovesYou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm.. At least you notic what your doing...Yoiu have a way of doing thigs difrently we are all humans i guess it's normal i thik. well just try not to burst your bubble
2006-12-26 11:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother categorising yourself? Just do whatever makes you happy as long as no one gets hurt.
I would say your sexuality is 'ambiguous'
2006-12-26 11:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by Velouria 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a sexual being. Enjoy but be safe.
2006-12-26 11:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do I have to lock up my farm animals?
2006-12-26 11:58:32 · answer #10 · answered by blakree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋