am i gay or not ?

Question

am 24 years old from saudia arabia ,am a moslim guy working in a medical Warehouse ,i love men and i love to kiss a man ,am in love with someone but we didnt have sex yet coz he is from other land ,all we did for 2 years is chatting on the net!! am sure that one day i,ll left him behinde coz am not sure that am gay
sometimes i am sure that am gay but sometimes i doubt it my dreams talking about a men and only men ,i need to know how can i get sure that am gay, and can moslim be gay ,is it ok to be gay ??
plz guide me to the way

Answer 1

You do have a huge problem.
First you need to know whether you are gay,witch I think you are,
On the other hand you are a Muslim.
The whole community is against it:but here in Holland i know many gay Muslims and they have sex with men.
All i can offer you is to use my messenger so i can give you evidence that you are gay.
And of course it is OK to be gay.
Don't worry about it please.
Greetings Rob.
I have recently spoken to a lot of Muslims about this:you are not an exception.

Answer 2

You could be but you might also be something else.

Yes, Moslems can be gay but most don't talk about it openly, especially with other Moslems.

You must ask yourself: When you interact with men, are you ever sexually attracted to them or become aroused by thinking about them? Or do you just like to be around them, in a social or friendship sort of way? Are you sexully attracted to women?

To chat on the net with another man (even though he is gay) does not mean you are gay. You might just like him as a friend, a long-distance one.

I hope this helps you. Good luck.

Answer 3

Sounds like you are gay to me, life is short.do something for Petes sake, I don't mean that your would be friend is Pete. It would be funny if it is. That saying means, make a decision even if it is wrong. People not making mistakes are not doing anything.
Have a fling, what the hell and come back and tell us whether or
not this experience really blew your skirt up. This doesn't mean you are a transvestite also, just means the experience was the greatest thrill you ever had with or without clothes on.

Answer 4

If, at your age, you are thinking only of men, then you are probably gay. Whether or not you act on these feelings is up to you. Having sexual feelings for other men is not a choice (IMO) but, having sexual relations w/ them, is. You need to talk to someone whom you can trust (another muslim) to give you advice concerning your religious beliefs about homosexuality (but if that person is straight they will probably counsel you against acting upon your same sex feelings). You have to ultimately do what is best for you (and your happiness and peace of mind). Good luck!

Answer 5

Yes you are gay, but you are from Saudi Arabia and muslim so this thing is terrible to be, you have to leave this one and try to get a positive look at girls, but for better you should pray and adore god well and it will be better to go to Ka'aba specially it's not far from you and ask god to remove the gayness from you.

By the way i feel u! i'm muslim from iraq.

Answer 6

If you love to kiss a man, and you love a man you are GAY! And you know when you do private things you think about men! Ya Fruity Pie! It is okay because I am one too! FRUITY PIES UNITE!

Answer 7

Young man, "yes" you are gay.

When one man has sexual desires for another man and does not have the same desires for a woman, then that man is homosexual. Homosexual is another word for gay. And, you can be gay (prefer men partners) regardless of your religious belief.

Answer 8

You like guys and you're a guy, therefore you are gay. Most religions, islam included, tend to be anti-gay. I think that is something you'll have to reconcile on your own...

Answer 9

Sounds like you are gay to me.

Answer 10

Yes, you are gay. Yes there are gay muslims. You are what are you, regardless of religion.