2006-12-26 02:31:24 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Run away!
Or, is she hot?
Sorry, I couldn't resist. But seriously, do you really want to play around with that box of emotions? This is someone that you felt the need to divorce... why risk the possibility of adding to those already painful feelings?
2006-12-26 02:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by marenka 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should. Shes your ex wife for a reason. No point in stirring back up unnecessary, mixed feelings. Then what if she gets pregnant then theres another problem sitting on top of a already unresolved problem. Look at the consequences then ask your self is a piece of booty worth it.
2006-12-26 02:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by meka g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even see why you ask this question. She is going to be in the picture of your life for the rest of it. You were once connected and that never goes away. I do my ex-wife's income tax return; and her childrens' tax returns; and she asks advice on any number of matters and I consult with her. My current wife of 37 years visits with her and I am sure they laugh about the stupidity of men when they talk about me. Share whatever moments with her she wants you to share; life is short and mostly miserable so enjoy a few moments of happiness if possible.
2006-12-26 02:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there. Done that.
It was a great way to try out new ways, etc.
But the emotional baggage that came afterwards was not worth it. It is more common than you think. People sleep with their exes alot. It is comfortable for us.
2006-12-26 02:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by ME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on what caused the breakup in the first place, sleeping with her can open up old feelings and old hurts. what do u expect to gain from it, reconciliation with her? depends on what caused the breakup in the first place and if u can ever move past it. if your focus is on reconciliation and u really mean it, and still love them, than yes go for it, but if it's just to have sex than maybe it isn't such a good idea. as someone could get hurt, especially if they have expectations that theres a relationship there.
2006-12-26 02:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the past stay in the past. Sleeping with your ex in NEVER a good idea.
2006-12-26 02:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by DEBBY'S BABY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you planning on renewing the relationship?
Is she willing to do so? I would be totally against it, for reasons that you two were incompatible for some reason, and with out councelling, you would be incompatible still...
Ask your ex, if she would like to do some counceling with you to find out what went wrong. Then, after a few sessions, maybe you can iron out your differences and start a relationship again...but, to do so before hand, is courting disaster again.
How about attending a good Church! It may bring you both closer together as you draw nearer to GOD!
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-12-26 02:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
As long as you are not currently in an exclusive relationship with someone else, then there is no reason not to sleep with your ex...
2006-12-26 02:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not the smartest thing to do, pal. Seriously.
It could also impede future relationships with you and someone else if you have a continuous affair with your ex.
Do it if you want, but I see nothing but problems in your future if you do.
2006-12-26 02:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you parted on reasonably good terms and you both agree, go ahead. Both of you may still not have gotten over your comfort zones that you had when married.
2006-12-26 02:34:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋