I have a really good friend who is dying to hook me up with one of her friends from work. We have never met hens the blind date and she thinks we would be good to gether but since I am crazy about someone else I always say no. Because dont think it would be fair to him he has no chance anyway no matter what he turns out to be like. I dont know what should I do I would only go becuase my friend keeps telling me we would be so perfect together. What ever!
2006-12-26 02:24:01 · 20 answers · asked by Crazy in Love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
One date isn't much, so maybe just go to shut her up - then say you didn't get any chemisty from him.
Thats what I'd do anyway.
2006-12-26 02:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a relationship then I would be querying my friened's motives - I would hate to think that my boyfriend's friend was trying to arrange a date for him, no matter how perfect they would be together. How does this friend know that you and your boyfriend are not as equally matched.
If however you are crazy about someone you want to go out with but as yet you aren't, then get yourself off on this blind date you have nothing to lose - because you are crazy about someone doesnt mean to say he will ever feel the same.
Just as a matter of interest are you sure you are as crazy about this person as you think you are - because there is now way on god's earth I would risk my relationship with my boyfriend by going out with someone else.
2006-12-28 05:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by PMF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not committing yourself to him for a lifetime by agreeing to one blind date. Agree to go and make it clear that you are going with a light hearted attitude and no clear designs for romance. It doesn't sound, forgive me if I am wrong, that you are getting very far with the guy you are crazy about, maybe this blind date could be just the thing for you to move on from unrequited love, if not then you may find a good friend, have a fun evening, or have simply another experience to learn from, all of which are positives in your life.
2006-12-26 02:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by emily_jane2379 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! I definitely wouldn't go, not even to shut her up. If she knows you're already crazy about someone else then why is she trying to break you up? because that's what could happen you know, What if your b/f found out, how hurt do you think he would be? I'd tell her in no uncertain terms to lay off. Don't risk losing the person you're already liking a lot.
2006-12-26 04:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going through the stage in ones life called PEER PRESSURE. you are in love with some one else hence there is no reason for you to go out with an arranged date just so you could please your friend. stand by your decision and believe in what you say. it does,t matter if she thinks you guys will be perfect for each other. the fact is that this is your life and if you feel like you do not need to go through this then don't.
follow your heart- after all it is already in a direction where there is love.
good luck.
2006-12-26 02:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by mysticshabs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you "like" some one...
If there is no committment, like boyfriend and girlfriend... Dating regularly, or living together...
Then I see no reason why you shouldnt.
If you just "like" some one, and they show a mild interest in you, but, there is no 'connectivity', then you should take up your friends advice and go on the blind date...
My Cousin fixed me up with my Wife, and Its the best thing that ever happened to me!!!
(Sadly, my Cousin was married to my Wife's Cousin, and they both divorced...But, we have been married for 27 years now!)
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-12-26 02:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy which you're able to be in love with could be your terrific buddy. the guy which you marry could be your terrific buddy. Being terrific pals is a extraordinary beginning place of a relationship. even nonetheless it may additionally ruien a friendship as properly because individual your terrific pals with basically see's what's exterior, they never surely see what your somewhat like in a "relationship" till they're in one with you. definite its distinctive. i can permit you be attentive to this, you're able to make a no longer uncomplicated center determination of the place you desire to flow with this 1st and finest till now even affirming a be conscious to him. in case you sense that last pals is the terrific path for you, than do no longer say something in any respect to him and basically instruct satisfaction that your terrific buddy does love and shelter you. I actually have a terrific buddy that I even have properly-known for 15 years and we tell one yet another how lots we like one yet another each and all the time. And we brag approximately it to anybody, would not advise we could desire to get right into a relationship with one yet another basically potential we care deeply for an added. that's what love is all approximately.
2016-10-28 09:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are in love with someone else and he feels the same about you then dont go on this blind date.
2006-12-26 02:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do something just because someone wants you to. and if your happy with your partner then why are you even considering going on a blind date
2006-12-26 02:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by nat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go. if you go, you will be miserable to be with because you will always be thinking of the person you are in love with. It won't be fair on your date. Save your time and dedicate it to something you want to do.
2006-12-26 02:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by beanie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋