opinions people..
2006-12-26 02:20:29 · 11 answers · asked by × 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
When you about to get dumped.
2006-12-26 02:21:53 · answer #1 · answered by Webballs 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't hurt, on the contrary, it is amazing! It is the absence of mutual love that hurts.
Love is a bond between two people that goes beyond logic and reason, one that overwhelms the mind and senses enough to do things that are aporiable. But when only one person out of these two have this emotion they might not realize that the other might not reciprocate and it is this naiveity that blinds them from the plain and simple truth that they might get hurt as if they were in a relationship that doesn't mean anything what so ever!
When/if they do get hurt then they can't understand why this person, who apparently loved them, did what they did. The answer is quite simple: Either that other person doesn't reciprocate or they need reminding that what they are doing to those that they love the most is in fact hurting them! If they change their ways, at least enough to show that they desperately want to try, then they love you back. If they don't then they don't love you back.
Unfortunately the word love is used far too often or perhaps the bond associated with that word is perceived to be far stronger that it actually is.
2006-12-26 10:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think it hurts all the time. I've not been able to find a love (and I'm 35) that doesn't hurt. I'd even settle for happy some of the time and hurting just a little bit, but it doesn't seem to go that way.
I think it hurts most when you expect something in return and don't get it.
2006-12-26 10:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by SelfGrill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's based on trust, commitment, and of course betrayal
2006-12-26 10:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably when you realize that loving means letting go (although I haven't really had personal experience on this...)
2006-12-26 10:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by starry01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you can't get that kick in the nads from the one you love
2006-12-26 10:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it runs you over in the form of an 18-wheeler.
2006-12-26 10:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by iron chef bryan 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
After it becomes doubtful.
2006-12-26 10:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are too many answers to that question.
2006-12-26 10:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by trf_islandkandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it walks out of your life
as fast as it walked in
2006-12-26 10:26:49 · answer #10 · answered by BIG JOHN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋