i keep having these dreams that i am making passioate love with men, that i dont even know, and in wild places like on top of restaurant tables. now my dilema is that i am a bisexual female, but recently (2 months) have just been strictly with women. i decided that i no longer wanted men. so why do i continue to have these perfectly satisfying, steamy dreams?, could it be that its what i REALLY want but dont know it?
2006-12-26 02:06:17 · 7 answers · asked by psychologistnovelist 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i used to be equally satisfied with both sexes, i have been bi for 6 years but recently, men have not been doing it for me and i do wish they still could, but since they dont, i gave them up
2006-12-26 02:13:24 · update #1
It could. On the other hand, it might just be a passing fancy. If you are truly bisexual, then maybe the answer is that you really like a little from column "A" and a little from column "B" on the sexual menu. Perhaps you are having hetero dreams because you have cut the shmeckie out of your diet and your bod is craving it.
2006-12-26 02:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Passion is passion and dreams reflect our inner selves...to a point. I have been happily committed to a lesbian relationship for 27 years and still occasionally dream of steamy sex with a male. This stems, I believe from the way I was brought up combined with the influences of TV and movies. Women are taught by their mothers that this is what we're suppose to yearn for. TV and movies give us the supposed "ideal" love affair between the sexes. My subconscious thinks this is what I want. But whenever I get near men, their smell is not pleasant to me. I don't hate it, and when younger before finding my mate, I tried a few men. But only my partner "sends" me! Yet, I seldom dream of sex with her. Why? Because I don't need to dream of it, I can get it! Maybe the above answer with the chocolate reference was right.
2006-12-26 11:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Or could it just be that you're satisfying your bisexual nature in the realm of dreams?
2006-12-26 10:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be that you secretly desire men and women aren't sexually fulfilling???
How could a woman ever be ??? You WANT a MAN! Your body wants one anyways.
I dont' care what you say...
2006-12-26 10:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by incognitas8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i quit eating chocolate i imagine i would dream about it . you want what you want and id say men are defiantly still on your menu. like it or not.
2006-12-26 10:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by insomniman1 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I hope this site helps
http://spirita.blogspot.com/
2006-12-26 10:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your decision has cause you to re-examine what you want
2006-12-26 10:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋