first of all im 15..
i liked this boy, he was my friend, his names ryan, he acted like he liked me too, and kissed me once on the lips, then i found out that after it he got a girlfriend, who by the way looks like a total sl*t, so anyway i have a stupid mouth so i accidentally blurted out once that what he did (getting a girlfriend) made me mad, and he said there was nothing between us (me and him) and that kiss was just a friends kiss... so anyway he totally broke my heart and i cant stand him even though i still like him.. so now ive got a boy friend (jake) and i dont really like him that much, but hes really hot.... anyway he's always out partying and getting drunk, and i dont really care, cuz like i said, i dont like him that much,im still not over ryan, and for some reason i keep thinking that dating jake will make me feel better about myself but it actually just makes me feel like a wh*re, and well i cant stop thinking about ryan and seeing him with that sl*t..it makes me so mad
2006-12-26 01:20:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
move on!!!!!
dump that jake guy
i think that ryan is doing the same thing uare doing with jake
i think he likes u but is arfaid to say it!!!!
maybe jake and ryan's girl friend would make a godd couple?
hhhhmmmm.....
2006-12-26 01:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by (¿¿) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi girl, all I can say is just be yourself and try to see the big picture of reality.. Trust it may hurt, but you have to be honest to yourself, if you don't like Jake you could just be single.. Doesn't mean having a bf could get this boy's attention, try to indulge yourself on things that would make you busy and not think of him.. As you can see, you're the one who's hurting and this boy feels nothing.. Don't torture yourself and by the way don't ever think that you're a wh*re either, that will just make you feel bad about yourself.. Try to do new things that will make you feel better and prettify yourself more and make this boy see that you're very happy even if you're not together.. Hey! there's lot of guys out there better than him..
2006-12-26 01:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by hotlipz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop Jake and get a grip, sweetie. You need time to get over Ryan and Jake's just gonna drag you down. Your too young to be dealing with drunks. Just wait till you find the right guy and I don't think either of those are it.
2006-12-26 01:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by Cindarella R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is so much to life to let this get to you so bad, you seem very intelligent and really need to make a stand for you....being with someone dosen't always complete you at any age...what you need to find is the wonderful person you are deep inside and let that person rise up and you will lose all this anxiety over a guy....remember to put yourself #1 after you do things will balance out....and as time passes things will improve and life will be better!
2006-12-26 01:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by snickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need some alone time. Please don't date someone who drinks too much. Don't date someone just for revenge. Try to do something constructive like get good grades or work out and see if you meet someone decent. First you should become a decent person to be able to meet a decent person.
2006-12-26 02:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by Penelope Yelsopee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with jake and stop liking ryan
2006-12-26 01:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by kodak moment 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly is your question? Men are men, and will always be they come and go. He sounds like crap to me, so does your "HOT Jake" dump him and move on
2006-12-26 01:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by Mariah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront your past,you cannot always run from it!
2006-12-26 01:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by godelectedme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋