my friend is asking me to marry her,how i can marry her if she is also a girl,first we together use to make fun of other becouse she always use to wear mans dresses and use to act like a boy. before i use to enjoy with her(not that way please) together we goes to market,school,tution and everywhere and with anybody she will fight for me even with boys but now suddenly her attitude changed she is crying and convincing me to marry her and telling me that i love u,and many more,i tried to make her understand that this is un natural and its not possible 4 me to marry her, i dont want to tell anybody neither my parents nor my boyfriend(she dont know about him otherwise she will fight with him)now you guys tell me what to do,how to take her to doctor which she is not ready,please dont ask to leave her,she is my best friend i dont want to loose her.please give me nice advice.shy to tell u mor she like my undergarments.i notice she robes frm my cubord dnt no y.
2006-12-26 00:42:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
That is a very unusual story in india but abroad it seems quite heard of if not common. And in some foreign countries they also have laws which permits it.
But in India it is neither legal by law nor socially acceptable the marriage of a girl to a girl. I don't want to digup what relationships you are having at present but surely that is very emotional and binding relationship. And from your views it appears that you are not very much interested in marrying her (obviously) so what can be done is to convince her that it is not possible. Try to convince and if she doesnot change tell her about your boyfriend and that you want to marry a boy not a girl. that will hurt her but she will understand later.
Otherwise there is no other way then breaking up from her, keep a distance and if required take her to a counseller/psychiatric. All the best.
2006-12-26 01:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by saiby_kam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and your friend need help. She needs psychiatric help and you need help with your spelling and grammar.
2006-12-26 08:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by citrusy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Candy has the answer.
2006-12-26 08:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by Arnoux 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure marry her
2006-12-27 01:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by john 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
huh?
2006-12-26 08:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by myangel_101211 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋