i do not love him but sex is the best i've had..............so he is like all the time do u love me i do not know what to do .............well i mean i know what i want still i do not want him get hurt.........
2006-12-26 00:42:40 · 19 answers · asked by tiptop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Make it clear to him how you feel... if you want him and he wants you, why not? But, don't let him think you're in love if you're not. Make sure that he understands why you're with him. If it's just sex, be sure he KNOWS that it's only sex and you're not experiencing any deeper feelings with him. I can't say I understand completely though because I haven't yet had truly GREAT sex with someone I wasn't in love with. Women don't, typically??? It's interesting that you're different in that way. Good luck and enjoy yourself - just don't take advantage of someone else's heart to do it.
2006-12-26 00:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by faithloveseternally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find love on every corner but great sex only comes once or twice in a life time. Stay in the relationship as long as he is hitting the right spot. Do not worry about hurting him. Tell him what he wants to hear .
2006-12-26 08:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by sonny_too_much 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a woman once that flat out told me, "If you say 'I love you' after we have sex, then it'll be the last time..."
I think you just have to be upfront about your expectations and explain that if he can't handle it, then maybe you need to go else where. I've often heard...and I don't know how accurate it is, but I've heard that the best sex is usually done by someone in love.
2006-12-26 08:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting role reversal. Usually, it is the female who wants reassurance and the male who just wants to keep it light. I think you need to be kind and just tell him you are not ready to make any deep emotional commitments. Assure him that he is very special to you and that you hope he will be patient and see where things go naturally. In the meantime, tell him that sex is one way for the two of you to connect and offer each other a gift of love. Tell him to receive this gift from you just as it is, with no strings attached, and say that you hope you can continue to receive his in return.
2006-12-26 08:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't love and Love isn't sex !
That's just the seduction of having a good time !
U know what ? I love my girlfriend and I never want to have sex with her !
Try to find a serious love no sex !!!
2006-12-26 08:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by crystal_heart100 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is sex--making love is a totally different situation. Sounds like you need to to do some growing up before you pull your pants down.
2006-12-26 09:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having sex for the pleasure hun, then wateva, but if you aint feeling him, then let him know, dont leave him hanging around, it will hurt both in the future trust me!
2006-12-26 08:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by babiirage 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off, you are only making love if you are in love, otherwise it is just sex, i don't know of too many men that will stop having sex with you just because you don't love him
2006-12-26 08:45:22 · answer #8 · answered by the rooster 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How many times are you going to ask this question? Do you think people will say something totally different the next go-round?
2006-12-26 08:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by hiclaude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your doing it just for the sake of it it's not making love.
2006-12-26 08:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋