I found out that i'm pregnant.An already have 2 other kids one being a toddler. Aside from that i'm thinkin about ending this pregnancy for various reasons. Should i tell the guy what my plans are? Cause i was being a dumb*** and kinda messed with 2 guys in the possible days that i could of conceived. Should i tell them both? Hopefully someone can help me out..
2006-12-26 00:21:25 · 7 answers · asked by rainloose 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No just terminate and all will be hunky dory. You risk great grief if you do otherwise, just telling it as it is.
2006-12-26 00:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think long and hard before making the decision to end your pregnancy. You know once you've had an abortion there is no changing things. Make sure it's a decision you can live with. Take responsibility for your actions and tell both possible fathers. Let them help you make the decision. After all one of them helped put you in the position you are in. Good luck with whatever you decide.
2006-12-26 00:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you can make this decision. It seriously depends on what kind of guys these are, and what you decide to do about the pregnancy. If their reaction will affect your decision, then tell them and work through this issue together. If you'll only hurt people and cause a lot of trouble for your family, then think twice before telling them.
2006-12-26 00:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by Vaughn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think firstly you should go see your doctor. My sister was in a similar possition to you. She told both guys that she was pregnant and that either 1 could be the father,
One guy stuck by her and went to her appointments, the other one said he was sterile and could not possibly be the father.
After the baby was born they had DNA testing and the guy who said he could not be the father is the father.
Because she was honest the guy who stuck around and turned out not to be the father is her best friend now because she was honest. My sister loves her child and even though it is hard to be a single parent she is glad she told the truth and that she kept her baby.
Good luck and adoption is always another choice..
2006-12-26 01:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by mummy to 6 ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you decide what you are going to do, you shouldn't tell anyone. You don't know for sure who the father is, so telling them about the baby when you might be getting rid of it, would not be a good idea. If you decide to keep it, then maybe you can think about telling them.
2006-12-26 00:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by Niecy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell them until you decide for sure what you are doing.
I know that doesn't sound fair to a lot of people, but the reality is that you will be the person primarily responsible for the baby, and you should be the one to decide on your own if you can handle it.
I wish you luck with your situation and your family.
2006-12-26 00:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by Gem 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him and the other guys you man lose your man and the father but if he is a good guy than he will stick with you for the kid!!!! DO NOT GET AN ABORTION it is wrong and in-humane give the kid up for an adoption give him a chance at life
2006-12-26 00:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋