my husband threw my kids and me out of the house for his new "prettier" gf. i was so heartbroken becuz he told me how ugly i was and now we have to live at my moms. was he right or wrong
2006-12-25 23:59:25 · 23 answers · asked by JUDI 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
100% wrong thing for him to do that!!*
i give u my stand
2006-12-26 00:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by starapproximate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were wrong to let him do this. You and the kids have rights! You should have told him to leave. If it's an apartment and his name is on the lease, it doesn't matter. Now that it's too late and you're out, don't be a rug anymore. I don't care if you look like Quasimodo, you have rights! Get to a lawyer and rip him a new one!!! Cheating is unacceptable. Even if you were a horrible wife. There are other ways of fixing problems. I kind of wish I could hear his side of the story but still, you just don't cheat. The proper decision was to divorce first then go out whoring.
2006-12-26 00:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the court house and get a protection order which will also make him have to leave the home. Have him served with it by the police and they will escort him out, watch near by or have someone do it for you.. Then as soon as he is out move you and your kids back in!!
He had no legal right to kick you out, even if he owned the home before you married.
If you don't have the money let the county clerk know and they will waive the fee. Same goes for when you file for divorce, they will make HIM pay.. What a creep!
Yep he IS wrong...
2006-12-26 00:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mommadog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You husband sounds like a very good man. He has every right to send his son clothes. She is getting the child support that is required. By her saying she wants cash would make me believe that she has no intentions on getting anything for the child. I hope you cut the price tags off the clothes so she can't return them for cash. Have you thought about getting custody of the child? He was not wrong at all.
2016-05-23 07:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by Susan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the house and property are jointly owned by both you and your husband then get to a lawyer fast and exercise your rights ,,,, This guy is a jerk ,,,, spare him no mercy ,,,, A judge would grant you the house because of the children ,,,, and set up child support for him to pay ,,,,, Don't let this go ,,,, He shouldn't be doing this to you or your children ,,,, There are people and or authorities you can appeal to for assistance ,,,,
2006-12-26 00:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was definately WRONG !! If you two are married it is your house also. He has no legal right to throw you or your children out. If l was you l would be telling him he is a lot more than ugly. Tell him to take his pretty hoare and find somewhere else to live with her as you and his children are moving back into your home. If he doesn't like it he can lump it !! Good luck to you and your children.
2006-12-26 00:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was so wrong. I don't know about your state laws but in SC one spouse can not make the other leave. A judge would not stand for the children being put of the home like that! Take him to court honey!
2006-12-26 01:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by peorgiefree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i gotta tell ya he sounds like a real asshole! and are you kidding me?what is wrong ,you are asking whether he is wrong or right ,he threw you and your kids out!he is dead wrong! and if i were you, it wouldnt even be a question in my mind.and you need to seriously forget that this happend i know it hurts but you really need to forget it i have had so much life experience especially with crap like this! the best thing you can do for you and your kids is to go on with your life and make something of yourself because dwelling on this **** aint getting you nowhere believe me please take it from me he doesnt care he wont change his mind and he sounds like an asshole to tell you that you are ugly hes so full of **** if you were ugly what the hell was he doing with you in the first place the truth is now listen to me the truth is you are pretty he just got tired of you and wanted someone else SOME men are like that they got tired easy and need someone fresh yes its not fair but thats life! please take my advice dont even think about it its so a waste of time go on morgana
2006-12-26 00:17:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was and is a jerk and a mental/emotional abuser. Don't give him a second chance and stay as far away from him as possible.
Get you some counseling to correct the damage he has done to your ego and learn to feel happy that he was stupid enough to give you the way out you so desperately needed. File for child support and say good riddance.
2006-12-26 00:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you leave? Did he physically put his hands on you? If so, you should have phoned the police, and then he would have been the one to leave. Why should you and the children leave your home so your husband can have another woman sleep on your sheets? You gave in too easy. We have to learn how to fight for what is rightfully ours, not the husband, but the house for you and the children.
2006-12-26 00:46:17 · answer #10 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live in the U.S. he doesn't have the right to kick you and your children out of your home. Get a lawyer.
2006-12-26 00:25:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋