Last night i was in party with my girlfriend. I stood up to dance but i was feeling so uncomfortable and awfull. I couldnt even prtend to dance and felt like becoming the joke of the party if i continue. So i sat down. I have decided to put away this feeling but how?
2006-12-25 23:43:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
Who cares? Parties are about having a good time and enjoying yourself. I guarantee you that everyone there wasn't a great dancer.
2006-12-25 23:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by hiclaude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend, i know what you might be going through. I have too gone through this stage. Actually everything is in your mind. If you think you will not be able to dance as good as others are then you are right and if you think you are the best then too you are right. Trust me it a mind gave and what you think is the truth. Make your mind that you are the best and you can compete with anyone you will not have any problem with it. More over dance is for fun and enjoyment so go and dance the entire dance floor is your
2006-12-25 23:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by Ankur B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel! My boyfriend is a great dancer..and I always feel like compared to him I suck at it! We were at a wedding reception about a month ago though and he was dragging me out on the dance floor and I felt like I wanted to crawl in a hole and die - haha- but I just started to dance like he was. He didnt care what anyone thought about him, he was confident and crazy. So I tried the same thing and I had fun the rest of the night. Just be confident in yourself. No one dances the same, so who's to say your doing it wrong?!
Hope this helps you out!
2006-12-29 02:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by beth ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, Sag,
No problems, my friend.... there are two ways of handling such a problem......
1... you can watch others, until you get the hang of it, and gradually and slowly wean yourself into the dance....
2..... you can allow yourself to let others laugh at you purposefully... while there, laugh at yourself... because, after all, it's a party... enjoy it, even if it makes one laugh... laugh with it... and have fun while making a fool out of dancing!
But, learn... if that's what you want to do..... If it makes you feel better, then learn how...... But, learning comes from watching and experiencing, then taking that chance...
Do it alone, until you have gotten the hang of doing it in the open.....
I hope much for you.... You really need not worry!!! You need only to have fun while doing it!!!
Your sister,
Ginger
2006-12-25 23:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 09:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by roca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best kind of dancing for fun and confidence: Scottish country dancing. You can take a class. Inexpensive and available almost anywhere. Bring your girlfriend, she'll love it even more than you will.
www.scottishdance.org
to find a class near you
2006-12-26 07:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To build your self confidence in dancing, enroll in a ballroom dancing class. It's knowing that we become bold.
2006-12-25 23:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by wilma m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO not dance who cares but if you really want to dance then practice dancing at home infront of mirror...
2006-12-26 02:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by Abhimanyu S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep practicing--practice at home, take dance lessons. The more you practice, the less self-conscious you'll be. Also, the more you practice, the more popular you'll be with the girls!
2006-12-26 15:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by salsera 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find something that makes u comfortable and at ease w/ urself, try using it to help u be a lil more confident in ur dancing
2006-12-29 10:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by clendenny_21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋