for 4 days straight my ex g/f and i have spoken non stop every night and texted, i gave her a christmas present last week and tonight we talked again and layed our cards on the table, i told her i still love her and she said she knew and she said that she after changing her numbers twice wasnt going to talk to me again, but after i wrote her a letter she says she looks forward to talking to me, yet only by email, txt and phone... not in person yet.. i asked her flat out why she likes talking to me and she said to a friend of hers that we are talking and this friend asked why and together they said because my ex still cares, i then said to my ex , could you still be in love with me? she said umm no i dont think thats it.. not only that the ex has been crying over memories of us and she says she is just devistated and dissapointed that in the beginning we were happy before i got sick with a mental illness and we split up, is she inlove? still or have i lost her?
2006-12-25 23:26:51 · 12 answers · asked by Shaun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
to be blunt it sounds like your x just wants to be friends and likes to know you are ok.
If she has told you she doesnt love you and doesnt want to get back together with you then you have to take her at her word.
Move on with your life and enjoy yourself,not wollow in what was
2006-12-25 23:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by freerange00720002000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the short term you've lost her.
You can love somene without being in love with them. At the moment she still cares about you, but has no intention of re-starting the relationship. From what you say it seems the relationship may have been toxic for her at the end and she has decided she doesn't want to be in that situation any more.
She cries about the fact the relationship started happy, but then changed, so she's mourning the loss of how things once were. She's mourning the loss of the hopes and dreams she had at the beginning, the loss of the person she thought you were - not the one you turned in to.
A while down the line she may change her mind and want to try again, but not today.
2006-12-25 23:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your mental illness. Just give her some time to understand what has happened to you. Send her some information about the type of mental illness you are dealing with. She is most likely afraid of the very idea you are diagnosed with this. Mental illness is very misunderstood and people tend to not want to face the fact that their loved ones have this problem Take care of yourself and make sure you follow your doctors orders. There are so many different type of medicines that will allow you to feel normal again.
2006-12-25 23:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 04:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Acutally she sounds unsure of it herself... maybe give her sometime. Dont jump into thinking she still loves because sometimes its really not the case.
2006-12-25 23:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like shes torn in two on one side she still loves you and wants to be with you on the other shes trying to protect herself against getting hurt. just try to take it at her pace and be patient and reassuring i know its hard when your in love but you need to let her figure out what she wants
2006-12-26 01:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by nat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she changed her number twice to avoid talking to you? and you're mentally ill?
I'm not sure I would advise hanging out with her anymore.
2006-12-25 23:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you love her then what are you waiting for , just don’t waste time go and propose her in all decent way before its too late .
2006-12-25 23:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by Amit G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like she's stringing you along.
She's just keeping you around so she wont be lonely.
2006-12-25 23:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry mate i think you have lost her. she isnt ready to cope with your illness. thats why she is crying. i think you need to try and move on and find someone who likes you for you.
2006-12-25 23:33:53 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel_Son_Bonsai 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋