My friend keep asking me if I'm a lesbian and I keep telling her,NO. Honestly I'm strictkly dickly. But why does she keep asking me if I'm a lesbian when I had said no already? Could she be the lesbian? I'm thinking maybe she's hoping I say yes because she wants me, what you think?
2006-12-25 22:58:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If she is a lesbian, tell her to stop trying to push her homosexuality on you. Tell her to have more tolerance and respect for your heterosexuality.
Unfortunately, many gays and lesbians think that they are exempt from the need to extend the very tolerance that they demand from others. I suspect that your friend -- perhaps that term is being used too loosely here? -- is thinking exactly that way.
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2006-12-25 23:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are two possibilities.One is that she thinks you may be a lesbian because of something she heard or because of a behavior you have that she thinks is something only lesbians do.Stereotypes have ruined it for many people because once a stereotype is circulated it becomes almost a fact to people that if you do something a certain way then you must be what they think you are.The other possibility is that she is a lesbian and since she keeps asking you, why not ask her?
2006-12-26 07:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by BuckFush 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your asked three questions.
1. Why does your friend keep asking you if you are a lesbian?
2. Could she be a lesbian?
3. What do you think?
Question 1: You should ask her why she persists.
Question 2: Yes she could be a lesbian.
Question 3: You need to get over yourself.
2006-12-26 07:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by Lorenzo H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
play a trick on her by asking her if shes a lesbian if she sayz no,Then pretend that you like lesbians and that you are a lesbian yourself and keep on comenting on lesbians by saying good things.Then ask her one more time if she really isn't a lesbian and pretend that you thought she was give half a day and if you get nothing out of her tell her the truth that you're not a lesbian and if she is and dosen't want to tell you tell her you will always be her friend no matter what
2006-12-26 07:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by Violette S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be a possibility, but then she might want to find out and feel relieved. Only she has the answer, so try to get it from her. Good luck.
2006-12-26 07:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by CRT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty much like she is a lesbian.
If you are friends,you are supposed to be able to talk about this.
Don't drag it longer than necessary.
Talk to her and tel her that you are straight:end of confusion.
greetings:Rob.
2006-12-26 08:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be suspicious. I have never had a guy ask me if I was gay. And if he did, I would probably wonder the same thing.
2006-12-26 07:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess that she's testing the waters a little...
Just be upfront with her and be honest, that's all you can do. And if you're curious if she is, then simply ask.
2006-12-26 07:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like it, make it absolutely clear she is not equipped for your kind of fun, so stop asking.
2006-12-26 07:02:47 · answer #9 · answered by Bladerunner (Dave) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be 1 but you do you.Don't change 4 nobody.
2006-12-27 17:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by Lil Buddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋