my ex keeps coming back he has been gone for about 3 years now he got married backin august and he stil wants to come around why cant he just move on with his new life since the day he left he wants to come around even the night b4 he got married he wanted to come by does he miss what we had and maybe regrets leaving cause sometimes i hear people say that when you are going through something in the current relationship they tend to think about the ex and sometimes regret leaving
2006-12-25 22:21:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
but dosent he want to move on with his life
especially if he is married why not 4get about me
2006-12-25 22:30:32 · update #1
he misses good old times spent with you :)
2006-12-25 22:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by Apollo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason on why you both broke up in the first place. Maybe that explains why you never got back with him for the 2nd time. He is married and still trying to get with you... do you want that kind of a man? Who's to say that he wouldn't do the same to you if you decided to get back with him, or that he is telling another lady the same things that he is telling you? He sounds like a dog to me. He should have been left you alone once he decided to dedicate his heart and life to another woman. Stop excepting his tease because it's all a mind game with his control. You sound like a sweet person... you may need to move on.
2006-12-26 06:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by syphsss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is regreting for what he has done let him do so but you dont go with him now because when he was leaving you at that time he did not think about you and now if he is coming back then also he is not thinking about you he is coming back for his fulfilment. As a nice friend i suggest you that if he comes back to you, you just ignore him and be happeyh ever with you life.
2006-12-26 06:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mamta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look. I wish you females would wake the FK up! Youré the one letting him come back. Change your address or phone #. Stop acting like you still want him and kick his A** out of your life. You are not all that. Maybe you want him to come back. It´s simple "Break the contact Break his Back ". And you need to grow up !!!!
2006-12-26 06:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by RJ2K1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what he does. You need to let go of him. Quit taking his calls. Quit answering his emails. HE IS MARRIED. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. If you get involved with him, you will be the one to suffer.
2006-12-26 07:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by ssc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes a fool. If that was me I would have even forgotten your name by now.. He should be happy that he is being given another shot at being happy and in love with another..
2006-12-26 06:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He comes back because you have not made it abundantly clear you don't want him to.
If you are giving him a booty call, then that just answers the question right there.
2006-12-26 06:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by Viola Shumski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell his wife what's going on, or get a restraining order against him.
2006-12-26 08:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T GET UPSET FOR THIS ONE.....HE KEEPS COMING BACK BECAUSE OF "YOU" YOU ARE THE ONE WHO LET THIS THINGS HAPPEN...AND MAYBE YOU STILL WANT HIM AND YOU ARE SHOWING HIM THAT HE IS STILL WELCOME IN TO YOUR WORLD....WAKE UP AND GROW UP GIRL....
I DID THE SAME MISTAKE AND YOU KNOW WHAT, I DIDN'T REALIZED IT UNTIL ITS TOO LATE....
JUST A PIECE OF ADVICE, JUST IGNORE HIM AND LET HIM FEEL THAT YOU MOVED ON ALREADY AND YOU DON'T CARE ANYMORE PERIOD...
2006-12-26 06:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by lady_skiewalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe, he wants to have some fun with you like the old times.
2006-12-26 08:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by vodka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋