Can women’s virginity be found? Please help?

Question

Dear friends,

I have fallen in love with a girl who works as bar dancer, simple reason behind my love to give her good life.
I asked her about her virginity she said she is virgin. In fact iam not very particular at the same time just because of my money and good life
She should not accept my love. she use to say some lies which I found, why this could not be on her virginity also?
In this regard she is asking me to have sex with her before marriage to prove her self.

Till today I have not even touched her plz answer me during sex is it possible to find. What possible still she could cheat me if she wants?

I need only the truth not her virginity its my life.

Answer 1

WOW!!!
What century and/or culture and/or age group do you belong in??

You are really scarey! You pick a bar dancer and 'LOVE' her, reason being to give her a good life.(?) that's not love!!.. it is possessiveness. You want to own her. You dont trust her for a minute and expect her to be all and everything and above all, not to lie to you. Possessiveness fosters lying, don't you know, out of sheer fear!! She doesnt NEED to lie to you because you wont believe her anyway, really, ever!!
I suggest you get a dog instead.. you can give it a good life (oh sorry.. love it), not worry about whether or not it is a virgin, are guaranteed a true friend if you treat it well, and never have to worry if it will lie to you. It will love you unconditionally, believe me.

Forget this girl!! It'll never work this way. You cannot have a real lasting relationship with another human being based on ownership. phhh virgin indeed!! and you neeeeeeed her to be a virgin....and to think it is soon 2007!!

Answer 2

A woman hymen can be damage from many of things, but if it's her first time having sex, trust me you will know cause it would still be a lil painful for her just as much as a female with an undamage hymen. And for some reason, a lot of females lie about being a virgin, once it's gone.. it's gone. And some women don't have sex in so long, they start to consider themselves as virgins.. but a man with numerous sex partners would know and would be able to tell if she is a virgin or not.

Answer 3

If you have been around the block a few times you can tell if a woman is a virgin. If she is a bar dancer then most likely she is experienced at sex and just trying to make you believe other wise. I will say i might be wrong. But i doubt it.

Answer 4

Her virginity is completely unimportant and you should really stop worrying about it. No, there is no way to tell whether or not a woman is a virgin. Yes, that does go against popular belief about hymens, but this belief ignores the fact that hymens can be broken doing other things and that some women are born without hymens! Really, virginity is inconsequential to your love.

Answer 5

if u really love her, it doesn't matter if she is a virgin or not, what she did in the past must be left alone now. But you said she lied to you, u have to be careful that she is not using you and when she gets married to u she will still lie about stuff.

U can find out if a girl is a virgin in bed, yes, girls bleed when the guy penetrated them for the first time.

Answer 6

thares no thank you to tell if he has had intercourse or has ben masturbating. the anly factor you may tell if if he's sexxualy energetic or not. specifics or undeterminable. most of the time a sercusized penis has a hoop close to the girth. not the hoop on the pinnacle. wile erect the floor from the tip to a pair of cm under the pinnacle is a lighter colour than something of the shaft. somtimes with a small seen ring around the colour substitute. this ring could be consistant each and every of ways around. it this is taperd not stright each and every of ways around then this would be a demonstration of sexual intercourse. this ussualy is formed by way of masturbation. the tough pores and skin of the hand motives this. yet another sign is the way it hangs. non energetic men the penis will hand stright out. usualy retracted interior its forskin. sexualy energetic men somtimes the penis will hand particularly to a minimum of one area or the ather. and would not be retrracted into the foreskin wile not erect. all of those in spite of the incontrovertible fact that are tell tale signs and indications not totally acurate. yet as far as i be attentive to those are the sole signs and indications to relly tell.

Answer 7

Are you having second thoughts? If you really love her there is no question as to whether she's a virgin or not. Talk to her and tell her you know about the lies she told you. Let her explain.

Answer 8

What do you mean by it.s your life? you say you are not very particular because of your money and good life one miniute you are saying you don't care next it's worth your life .I think you are very confussed here as to what u are tryin to say ,are you a virgin if not why should she be if you love someone it should make no differance stop making such a issue about it.

Answer 9

Take her to bed and bang her brains out. If she thinks you are a hot lover and screams that is the best dick ever she is no virgin.
If she pushes you off slaps your face and runs to the bathroom she was a virgin.

Answer 10

It's pretty simple - if she's been laid before, she would know the spots and would work you instead of you taking initiative. Virgin women can be nervous at sex - not the other ones.