Are you gay if you want to be handsome but you are attracted to those who are handsome, but you are planning to marry a girl someday? Please explain your answers to me. Thanks..
2006-12-25 21:03:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Depends on the feelings for the girl...you didn't put that in. If you have feelings (strong) for her, and are also attracted to handsome men...I'd say you are bi-sexual. If you are planning to marry her without strong feelings for her and are attracted to handsome men...then you are gay but in denial.
2006-12-25 21:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be bisexual. or you might be gay and still really really afraid to be gay, and so still holding onto the idea of growing up "normal". More importantly, you're asking about sexual orientation. Unless I'm missing something, that's really not about gender. Gender identity is about whether YOU identify as male or female (or both, or neither, or somewhere in between). You're asking about who you're attracted to, which I don't think anyone else can really tell you. It tends to work itself out in time; most especially if you're open to all the possibilities.
2006-12-26 18:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can plan all you want, but if you are truly homosexual you have no business marrying heterosexually. Its cruel to marry someone you cannot give yourself fully to, and if you are gay man, you cannot do that with a woman.
Being handsome has nothing to do with being homosexual or heterosexual, I think you need to grow up alittle and get alittle more life experience before you make decisions about your future.
2006-12-26 00:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.
i am sorry
but that kinda sounds too werid for me
but
i think that you are not sure
if you want to be gay
because you still want to have the feeling that someone(girl) loves you and you want a child(s) of your own someday
i mean if you chose to be gay, then it's your decision
but if you are not sure about it and you are confused
think over again..
if you think you have made the rigiht choice.
and also check if you feel more attracted to men or woman. and which one makes you smile moree big and often..
hope this helped..
2006-12-25 21:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by smoothie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont realy understand your question!
Do you ask if you are gay if you want to look good, and that you like people who looks good?
If that is your question, then the answer is: Now, you are not gay. A gay person falls in love with persons of the same sex.
2006-12-25 21:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by toxisoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,your question is not put right.
This is so weird to answer.
What are you attracted to:handsome men?
Ever had sex with a guy?
You left to many details out.
If you can:edit your question.and i will answer it to the best of my abilities OK.
But I think,that you are bi-sexual,seen the fact you plan to marry a girl,right?
Greetings:Rob.
If you are serious:im is available.
I JUST COPIED /PASTED MY ANSWER THIS IS THE EXACT SAME QUESTION YOU ASKED BEFORE THIS ONE.
WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE FOOLING?
Not me in no way:you only changed the title of your question.
Don't do this once more please?
2006-12-25 22:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does this involve sex? it makes a bg diff in your real result....
And to all the mis-informed. their are hansome women. You might want a tomboy type wife the wife whom is one of the boys. their is plenty of women whome aren't gay and act more maculine than those whom are. I guess whom you want sexually and how strong that desire is deterimens if you bi or something stronger. you may just want a very assertive woman.
2006-12-25 21:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by Dy$e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mterosexuals do thei utmost to look good but it doesn't make them gay. And, contrary to popular belief, not all gay men are ravishingly handsome!
2006-12-26 02:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
I think that maybe society has shaped your ideals on marriage.
Maybe you are bisexual, maybe you're just confused.
Who knows what the future holds.
Sorry for being a fortune cookie.
2006-12-26 14:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by m_0hi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to kiss a girl and a guy , then see below , any changes will make you know .
2006-12-25 22:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋