I dont use drugs but i think heroine would be a painless way to go.
As for a reason to go im just so lonely i dont feel like hanging around earth anymore whether anybody else wants me to or not
there are people who care about me but they are just to busy to be bothered by me which makes me not care enough about them to stick around and contiously fail miserably at things like my job relationships and life in general i wont shoot myself or hang myself because i would probably screw that up to.
2006-12-25 21:00:47 · 11 answers · asked by Austin J 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
There are legitimate reasons people kill themselves. Some are noble and self-sacrificing others are because of illness. I think it's the saddest thing in the world to lose a loved one I also know that the pain that suicide causes surviving family members just think about how you would feel if someone you cared for comitted suicide "do onto others as they would do onto you" even if you dont get to see or talk to the people that care about you take comfort in knowing that there are people who care about you and they would rather be bothered by you than losing you and everybody makes mistakes at their job and in life the answer is keep triing and sooner or later you will be sucessful.
2006-12-25 22:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mack_215 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course anyone who answers would be cruel to encourage you in this, so you are not really looking for that. You are looking for some reason to stick around. OK; let's go with that.
My Steve committed suicide about a year ago, despite all I could say to persuade him to hang around. But he did talk about it, so don't buy the BS that people who talk about it never do it. I think if you try to talk about it and get bad reactions from too many people, you might start trying to make that your excuse for quitting. Giving up. Copping out.
Can you deny that is exactly what it would be? Being a quitter.
Improve your life, don't end it. What makes you assume you will "continuously fail miserably at things like my job relationships and life in general"? I did a lot of screwing up when I was young, and didn't really get into a job I liked and could keep until I was over 40. But that was OK, because I was living my life all during that time, having successes as well as failures. It's just that my successes were not in the economic world.
And as to my personal relationships: like you, it was up and then down; get to caring and then be disappointed. So it goes for most of us, unless we find our soul mate. I was lucky enough to find mine, we had over 20 years together, and then he quit. Copped out. Left me here to face it all alone.
But I do face it, because I am aware of the fact that I am not done with my life yet. There are things I need to do, and things I want to do, and I'm not ready to give up. I don't have any very plausible plans for the future, but I know I will go along, making decisions based on the best information I have, and doing what I can.
Why not? Plenty of things are fun, after all, and being a big success economically is only one of them. Lots of people don't get much fun out of it, either. Determine you will hang around just for the fun of it, OK?
What do you love doing? What would you be willing to do all day long if only someone would pay you for it? Do you have any hobbies or interests that could be the basis of a career? Can you find a career counselor or other professional who could help you sort it all out?
As to the mechanics of shooting a lethal dose, if you are not already a druggie, chances are you would screw that up at least as bad as any other method of attempting suicide. Face it; it's not so easy to die. And that's a good thing, because I've tried several times and ALWAYS been grateful (eventually) that I was rescued.
2006-12-26 05:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seek some counseling because you are going through a stage perhaps of clinical depression. Medicines are easily available. Give it a few months, then rethink it. If all the arrows point to suicide, then it is your choice. But give it some time, and try at least one medical doctor and one psychiatrist, just to be fair to yourself.
Also, worry about NOT dying and being a vegetable. If you can screw up a gun, you can definitely screw up an injection.
2006-12-26 05:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only persone that can make a difference in your life is yourself. Don't blame others for the things that happen to you. Get up and do your best. Life is an attitude if you want it to go wrong that is what will happen but if you want it to go great just feel it. Even if you have no faith that things can go good just fake it till you make it happen. Life is great. You need help.
2006-12-26 05:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by nube26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you're in a lot of pain. Tell the people who care about you how much pain you're in. If they really care, they'll help. I've been through a couple of similar periods in my life. Counseling was useful for me. Some people thought that was kind of like "rent-a-friend", and I understand that idea, but it worked for me. Life can be a challenge, but I'd like to encourage you to find the resources within yourself to rise to that challenge. Who knows what tomorrow will bring? Don't give up yet, brother.
2006-12-26 05:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by peter_lobell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't do it and I really feel for you. There is always something to live for. Imagine the misery you will bring to your family. It would be different if you died of natural causes but from killing yourself, they would live with that forever wondering what they could have done to help you.
2006-12-26 05:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by Conscience Sister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to do it, at least do something crazy first. Not violent crazy, but just something you've always wanted to do or would like to do but never could before. You're going to kill yourself, so it doesn't matter, right? Like ask someone on a date who you'd never normally ask. Or ask someone if they'd like to have sex with you. Just out of the blue. You never know, they might say yes. You're going to be dead anyway, so what does it matter?
2006-12-26 05:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by answermachine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In the end the choice is yours, all I can do is say you're makin a bad one...
2006-12-26 05:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by tamaleman33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help. See a counsellor.
2006-12-26 05:02:31 · answer #9 · answered by Hanky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice, you don't focus and screw up, so you think suicide is the answer. What a lazy coward!
2006-12-26 05:03:39 · answer #10 · answered by judy r 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋