2006-12-25 20:52:30 · 18 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It is an unalterable and universal rule. Men are pigs. Str8 and gay alike. Sure, it's nice to have a steady squeeze, but isn't a quick romp with a hot guy a more attractive idea? And even if you have a boyfriend, haven't we all had a little piece on the side? That torrid affair with the lifeguard you met on the beach this summer. Or the humpy blonde from Germany vacationing here and hoping to bring back a story or two of his own goings-on.
Yes, we're shallow and just want quick sex. It is easier and less time consuming than getting to know someone well. If you can't play on the first date, what's the point in a second?
Casual sex is just that. Casual. Those of us who take a broader approach to life and what it has to offer accept that many men are like-minded and we enjoy what each other has to offer. It isn't crass or meaningless. It is a rich and rewarding experience.
2006-12-25 22:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It's like with any scene, some people are shallow and others are not.
On the whole I don't think it's as shallow as the straight scene, purely because I see so many straight guys taking advantage of women. But on the other hand there are gay guys I know who do that too.
It's just a matter of realising what you want. I want the comfort of a real relationship, to feel loved and cared for, quick sex just won't do it, but not everyone is up for that.
2006-12-25 23:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by Modern Jesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,most of them are as shallow as can be,
However there are also lots of serious guys amongst them,but sadly enough they get to many times hooked up with a so called not shallow dude,who after some time falls back into his old behavior:hence:one dream chattered.
I am not shallow:that is the reason i don't accept invitations from guys who don't have or the guts or the decency to write why they want to invite me:and you think that that is superior behavior,that's how you reacted:still mad?
I never was :but you keep surprising me.
You can formulate questions real well
Rob.And I keep answering you :I don't even look who asks the question.Only the right questions deserve an answer,
Am i being shallow now?You tell me.
2006-12-25 21:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think most men especially young men want Quick hot sex with no strings attached. Its nothing to do with Shallow, men are just visual creatures. We look and Get turned on more than we think of things and get turned on, like women do.
2006-12-25 23:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by david s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems all men are like this ;-)......but well, I have a few gay friends and they seem to manage their sexual life and behavior just differently. I think most men , no matter if gay or not, are able to separate sex and love. ( some women can do this also )
Difficult question, we are all human and we all have different needs and dreams, but we have to find a way to get along with each other. Sometimes we get hurt just because we have a different imagination of, how our love life should be.....
2006-12-25 21:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by willow, the yodakitty from hell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think all men would like the idea of quick sex with no emotion. How ever it gets old and empty after a while. I lived that life for a long time and think that I had to grow as a person to get to where i wanted to date someone seriously. It has its good points and so does being single for a long time with many sexual partners. I have been exclusivly with my current bf for 2 years and am very happy and content. You get waht you look for though. someone sexy and cute may not want the realtionship you are loking for and vice versa. NOt all men do this but most people do.
2006-12-25 21:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by qcdon30 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ashley - are you still going on about this? I hope 2007 brings your man a-knocking.
The "scene" may be shallow but not all the individuals are. Just look at some of the LTRs that are referred to on here: Tab, Reyn, Da Ben Dan to name a few. They are a beacon to us all.
2006-12-25 23:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shallowness, like people who are jaded, is something that comes in all genders and all sexualities.It is true that it seems more common in men.But all is not lost.As long as you aren't shallow or jaded and don't become shallow or jaded then there is hope.Because if you can live without these negative qualities then you will have just proved to yourself that you don't fit into "all" men.I know I have proved that to myself.Now it is your turn.
2006-12-25 22:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by BuckFush 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think is is shallow to want to have raw, passionate sex with someone I hardly know - it is called fun! I hope next time I'm in Australia I can have some shallow fun with you!! :)
2006-12-25 22:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
The world is filled with shallow individuals.
Doesn't matter what their orientation is.
2006-12-25 21:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋