what should i do i am constantly trying to figure out how i should act. i always feel stupid and i am ashamed of what i like or how i act. i am always trying to be like someone else, what should i do?
2006-12-25 19:34:55 · 11 answers · asked by freddy d 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
well if your name is fred, my name is too. Im not making a point m just saying.
About your question, i think its really meaningful and im not sure if i could help when i dont know you or anyone of your aquaintances.
2006-12-25 19:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by YouDontKnowMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always try to help a friend in need
Believe in yourself
Be brave...but it's ok to be afraid sometimes
Study hard
Give lots of kisses
Laugh often
Don't be overly concerned with your weight, it's just a number
Always try to see the glass half full
Meet new people, even if they look different to you
Remain calm, even when it seems hopeless
Take lots of naps..
Be weird whenever you have the chance
Love your friends, no matter who they are
Don't waste food
RELAX
Take an occasional risk
Try to have a little fun each day.
...it's important
Work together as a team
Share a joke with friends
Fall in love with someone..
...and say "I love you" often
Express yourself creatively
Be conscious of your appearance
Always be up for surprises
Love someone with all of your heart
Share with friends
Watch your step
It will get better
There is always someone who loves you more than you know
Exercise to keep fit
Live up to your name
Seize the Moment
Hold on to good friends; they are few and far between
Indulge in the things you truly love
Cherish every Sunday
At the end of the day... PRAY
....... and close your eyes
And smile at least once a day!
2006-12-26 09:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by The REBELution! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Friends Ur Not Stupid, Ppl Make u Stupid Coz u May Truth, Good Thinker & Gentl, Its Not Like Other So They Irrate On U !!!
Pls Don't Fell Upset....
Many Many Happy X max & Happy Holliday.......... Santa May give Something Best Gift 4 u Only....!!!
2006-12-25 19:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by anilexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, I'm 20 yrs old. I do the same friggin thing. I think this way all the time as well. I dont have many answers for you, bc im searching for them myself (sorry about that). Just thought you should know that your not the only one who goes through this mental agony 24/7 (knowing Im not alone usually makes me feel better, so just attempting to make you feel a little better).
2006-12-25 20:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself ever felt that way. The first time i got that feeling, i turned so quiet. I thought the way i should behave. I always got myself not as i wished.
How did i handle this feelin?
I found anything that could make me busy. I tried to do my hobby again. Then i realìzed that sometimes when we people are getting nothing to do, then our brain will somehow think too much n too detailed of unnecessary stuffs.
So find anything that could make u busy
2006-12-25 19:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by ItzJonn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you must be less than 30 years old. I say that because I remember feeling that way in my teens and maybe early 20s, too. I think it's just a natural phase you are going through. As a teacher, i can tell you that "modeling" after others is the way we learn, and therefore normal. I would say just to try to model those are good role models--healthy. educated folks. good luck.
2006-12-25 19:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by Curtis76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to discover who you are and what you like and value that person. Everyone is a work in process, nobody is perfect but that doesn't mean we should feel guilty about it. God created us, he doesn't think you are stupid. I often feel that same guilt and embarrasment, other people don't think what you fear they think as a rule, they are usually to interested in worrying if they look ok. Start trying to be like who you would like yourself to be.
2006-12-25 20:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by sereneicequeen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the time you have away from others. Everyone has to put on their acting shoes in this day and age.
2006-12-25 19:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by Chuck Dhue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self,who cares if someone likes you the most important person should love you it is you,because you have to live with you,
2006-12-25 19:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself for a day and you have a sudden feeling. It means you are normal.
2006-12-25 19:47:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋