sorry, just my heart seeking to know the answer
2006-12-25 18:33:14 · 26 answers · asked by Jessie 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Thanks, Pat C.. you just made me feel good!!!
2006-12-25 18:56:09 · update #1
I don't know what compels you to ask, but my heart cries just to hear you say your heart cries so...
2006-12-26 05:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by Bender 6 · 10⤊ 0⤋
HAHA!
Good question... I love your question.
I have been there. Trust me.
But, I have found that the answer is no.
It is natural to want to hurt someone who have hurt and disappointed you.
While revenge may feel good at the moment, it is only momentarily. The best thing you can do is to figure out a way to move on without seeking revenge.
Revenge brings you down to the level of the person who hurt you heart.
Do some readings on this... there are tons of online articles on this subject
Also, make sure to seek out the comfort of your family, friends and other people who care for you during these times of hardships.
Also, revenge can land you in jail!
I understand your feelings and it is natural. Since you feel wronged, hurt and possibly used, you want to do the same to that person who wronged you etc.
That is not the answer... actually, it is counter-productive. Learn from the experience, grieve etc. but do not try to make that person cry... it isn't going to help you in the long run
Best
2006-12-26 02:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by angelaholms 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes, it's natural to make the one who made you cry, cry. But realistically speaking if he/she were worth YOUR tears he/she wouldn't make you cry. And if he/she made you cry in the 1st place he/she is incapable of feeling empathy toward you & thus doesn't truly care.
I got this from my life's experiences and many, many fallen tears. I've learned if you truly love yourself like you should be loved then you will never allow yourself to love someone who will hurt you.
2006-12-26 02:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by 2D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd like to know the answer as well....
I guess another way to ask the question is: is it ok for you to want the person you love to hurt like you do?
... I think the feeling is normal...a normal human reaction.... as long as you don't do it to them on purpose!
good question!
2006-12-26 02:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Why would you want the person you love to cry too? I think its more of a revenge than love.
2006-12-26 02:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by Meeya 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why did they make you cry? Was it in fairness? if you can answer this, you got the answer.
2006-12-26 02:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by waganangu 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nothing is fair in love or war!
2006-12-26 02:36:27 · answer #7 · answered by dot&carryone. 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
its normal 2 have that kind of thinking after being hurt...
but u shld ask urself this... will u b happy if he gets hurt 2??? will u feel better knowing that he felt d same pain he's caused u???
d best way is 2 wish him a happy life..
remember, when u wish something gud 4 someone, it always comes back 2u in 3folds... (alot better than wat u wished 4)...
2006-12-26 02:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not all fair in love, because some tactics are cheap and dirty.
2006-12-26 02:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Extreme!!! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's only natural to want that. I think it's fair.
2006-12-26 02:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by ... 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋