2006-12-25 18:32:56 · 12 answers · asked by gueroslaptop 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is not only life after divorce, but if you take the time to feel what it is that you go through, surround yourself with a good circle of friends, and don't sell yourself out by becoming a skirt chaser, it is actually a GOOD life!
I'm remarried after a horrifying divorce. My ex tried to end my career (she failed) put me in jail (she failed) and turn my daughter against me (she failed). I kept the faith and tried to stay strong, both for me and my daughter. In all honesty, I got involved in a relationship before I met my new wife that was not healthy and had no future, and in retrospect, even though my self esteem took a beating when that ended, I see that it was a good thing. I wasn't ready.
My life with my wife is great. As time goes on, it seems like all of the horror that I experienced is fading to the point as if it were something I just read in a book instead of something I went through.
Ease up on yourself. I know it feels like world is turning to ****, but it will turn. Hang in there.
2006-12-26 21:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by tranquility_base3@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the first few months,
heck yeah there is still life out here....come on and join all us singles who are 35 and up. Once you get a taste of freedom, you might just like it!
2006-12-26 02:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by shortfrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know there are some days I ask myself same question where do you live? (woman 33) I have to keep telling myself YES I meet so many people through work (work in hospital) and I refuse to become one of these bitter woman or men that believes true love does not exist.There is some one out there for both of us, they just have not been lucky enough to find us :) You have to remember everything happens for a reason and learning from your experiences and moving on makes you a stronger, better person don't give up even when there are these kinda days
Good Luck
2006-12-26 03:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by undeniable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? If you can have life after losing your parents, why not after separation/ divorce? Select the appropriate person, try to know the likes and dislikes, adjustment capabilities, bindings between yourselves and live together.
2006-12-26 05:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course there is a life after, but u have to create it yourself, and be over your ex, or at least act as if u are. thing that is most important is your self worth, and confidence. as divorce hurts our self esteem and makes us feel as if there is no hope in our future, but there is always hope, just got to keep the faith, and never give up even if u don't meet the right person, right away, got to keep looking and searching.
2006-12-26 11:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course.. don't you have any kids? if none, live for yourself, you don't have to be miserable for the rest of your life just because of the seperation. Life goes on..It's normal to be depressed but don't forget there's always life after the storm. you're still young and i'm sure you'll find another life.. good luck!!! and happy holidays to you..!!!!
2006-12-26 03:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by JANE G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is. dont expect it to be easy and the first several months after the divorce is going to be tough. but things will start get better eventually.
2006-12-26 02:42:51 · answer #7 · answered by donewithschool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's life after everything...depend on how u create it..35yrs.. oh well there a bunch of older dudes than u out there and sinlge/divorce... and their life still look like moving on..
2006-12-26 03:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course there is you should just move on and enjoy life.
2006-12-26 03:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by lina i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck yeah
2006-12-26 02:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by panda64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋