i have 30 days before im totally screwed financially and emotionally im fried. ithe have some money saved and i want to go to a cheap place outside the us to regroup, read live cheap and so on. I could care less how cheap it is or where,, however i want to play soccer every day and chill with some books one month to 6 until i can function and my heart heals. i need some serious solutions like costa rica or something, ireland , anyhwere, but im on a limited budget and im done with new mexico. i just moved here and have few if no friends, cause ive been working two jobs and going to grad school. im pretty screwed if i stay so i need to chill and have mega change. PLEASE HELP.
2006-12-25 18:20:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
Thailand is cheap. But you really need to find a way to work and make enough money to live there for a while.
I had a friend who went survive the dotcom bust in Thailand, but she had a year's salary saved up, so she was all right. She ended up living there for four years....
2006-12-25 18:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by James A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that expression, jack of all trades and master of none? Sounds like you've spread yourself so thin that it diluted your ability to give any one of your objectives all that it required or deserved to do it well.
I wouldn't dump and run, you are just making it worse although it does feel good to dump and run in your mind. What you could do is give yourself the weekend off and take a breath, regroup and rethink about your objectives and then hit it again. Instead of leaving school, see what you can do to support yourself while sticking it out (sounds like you are almost there and that's a huge plus),,,,if you were doing well at one of the jobs, but just got off course, go back to the supervisor and ask if they would consider allowing you to come back if you can show them you are serious about taking care of business. All you need to do is not damn yourself because what you are doing and have done is amazing, but now you are at a point where you just have to change it a little in order to "bring it on home, because you are almost there."
2006-12-26 02:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by OPTIMIST 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With priorities like playing soccer you should manage to fail in life miserably.
2006-12-26 02:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by obenypopstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some help, try the local church and see if they can help get your priorities straight. Good luck and God Bless.
2006-12-26 02:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by foodguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mexico or costa rica, you wont have any friends there anyway.
2006-12-26 02:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋