i was cool in high school. i was the man. i was it! now i can't find work. i cant quit drinking. i can quit smoking. i am balding. the chicks no longer dig me. my family and friends are either all dead moved away or pissed at me. i have these bunions and corns on my feet that wont go away and i have this odor (so i am told) that wont go away, regardless of how many showers i take. should i just surrender, call it day, and join the homeless???
2006-12-25 16:49:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should stop drinking a lot. Take a shower. Quit smoking. be nice and then apply for jobs like nothing else. but don't give up hope.
2006-12-25 16:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Christianchick 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As far as drinking and smoking, take up candies or cherry stem tying for your oral fixation, maybe drink wine and smoke cigars and pipe instead. You should see some doctors about your feet and odors.
Why not join a church and serve the homeless. You probably have some coolness left in you somewhere that can be used for good and selfless purposes. You can make a living as a volunteer if you play your cards right.
Your old friends and family might gravitate towards you, once your life is up and going again in a positive direction.
2006-12-26 01:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by AnswerGuy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't panic! Your body is going through some changes, but maybe it's because you need to change something in your interior also. Seems like you were focused on the exterior before... Now, you have to look into yourself, see what is going wrong inside you. Maybe this is a time to make some serious changes, quit the vices, go to the gym, eat better and go see a doctor, he may help you with your bunions, corns and odor.
2006-12-26 00:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by Nicky71 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go get professional help for the alcoholism. No woman wants an alcoholic unless she is one as well. Get some patches or meds to help you quit smoking. Balding isnt always a bad thing so get over it. Make new friends. Go see a foot doctor about your feet if they bother you that much. The odor may be from something you eat alot of frequently. Also see a doctor about it. Yes personal odor will push people away heh. Sorry but it's a fact.
2006-12-26 00:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, it's just despite all other attributes women mention, the being unemployed thing is bigger than the rest. But's I'd give up smoking/drinking or at least cut back, see a podiatrist, take a soaking bath instead of shower if you can, get any kind of a job full or part time and fill your days with work or hobbies rather than waste time worrying about what other people think.
2006-12-26 00:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man you are just stuck in a rut. OF COURSE YOU SHOULDNT JUST "SURRENDER"!!! What the!?!?!? that is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard of. If you are at the absolute worst point the only thing that can happen is that things can get better. I know you are probably really upset but you gotta take charge of your life, take life "by the balls" and start making slow improvements for yourself...in this world no one else is gonna really give 2 shits about you (Excuse the language) it is every man for himself. Things can only get better. Start looking at your positive qualities (and don't say you do not have any because EVERYONE DOES). There are people that are worse off. Good luck!!!
2006-12-26 01:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by gaga g 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shave your head, change your shoes, buy some decent body wash and cologne, join a gym, drink more water, join AA, and watch some health videos on what smoking does to your lungs.
Never let go - just keep climbing!
2006-12-26 00:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by karespromise 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you cant change all at once...there is no way.
stop the drink...and maybe join AA.
after you have been doing that for awhile, it will get better.
dont worry about anything else. except working and not drinking.
finding women and friends will get better if you dont drink.
good luck
2006-12-26 01:02:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get help to stop the drinking situation. Don't quit on your life.
2006-12-26 00:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by LUST 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dude you need to see a Dr and get a job to pick up your self esteem if you were hot i HS but lost it in a short time then only you can honestly answer that
2006-12-26 00:51:47 · answer #10 · answered by sportlvr45 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋