what is unconditional love?
what is love & romance?
2006-12-25 16:42:42 · 19 answers · asked by rakhee s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont believe in unconditional love. I think every person has their breaking point....even with children....we try to love them unconditionally, but what about mothers of rapists and paedofiles...can we still continue to love them unconditionally? What about a woman who loves a man....this man cheats time and time again...if it was unconditional love, then we wouldnt care what this man does, we would just love them regardless...that is what unconditional love is about. To have unconditional love, you would have to have little emotion stirring inside of you. You would have to not care about yourself. You would allow a person to treat you anyway they like because you dont have any expectations. I dont know of many people who have true unconditional love. I think for true love to flourish, there has to be equal love and respect. For true love to find its true potential, both parties have to love themselves first. They need to respect the differences of the other person, they need to accept their love is an individual in their own right, but when the person they love overstep the boundaries of morility, eg, having affairs in a marriage and not caring about the feelings of their partner, then unconditional love does not apply. It is all about equality. It is all about respecting how another person is feeling. If you give and give and give and expect nothing in return, then you are setting yourself up to be hurt. A person who can love unconditionally without taking into account their own needs could only be a robot. We all have needs that have to met. If we allow someone we love to do whatever they want to do, regarless of how we are feeling will only belittle ourselves....we would end up no better than a robot. A dog can be kicked and abused but still love their master....but is it love...or is it a need to be fed?
2006-12-25 16:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Unconditional love is when you love someone through all the faults that they may have. People keep answering like it's a spouse and saying hard times. It's that plus so much more. It's a child that's bad, a parent that has screwed up. any person that is wrong and doesn't matter, you love them as they are.
Romance speaks for itself. It's the spark.
2006-12-25 16:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by dana j 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unconditional love is where you love the other person no matter what. You stick with them through thick and thin and sickness and health. If they have addiction you help them seek professional help not leave them in the cold. If they have physical flaws you overlook them and still love them just as much. If they make mistakes you both learn from the mistakes and do better next time, not punish them endlessly. If they lose a job you don't kick them to the curb or say hurtful things. Instead you support them emotionaly in trying to seek new work. These are some of the things that constitute unconditional love. AKA there is no condition to which you would not love this person.
2006-12-25 17:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
unconditional love is sticking through the hard times with someone when the situation just dose not make any since at all, when you it feels like you just cant make it with that person and they just cant seem to get there act together, when you put up with bs knowing that all you have to do is walk out the door but in the back of your mind you want to stay because you are in love not in lust, down the road when things have become a little clearer you will realize that it was unconditional love that brought you this far with this person
2006-12-25 16:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by christina h 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Unconditional love is loving someone no matter what meaning that you don't put a condition on loving someone like: I will love you if you lose weight, get good grades, etc.
The best definition of love is in the Song of Solomon which tells you what love is. Check it out.
Romance is the art of "wooing" the person you love.
2006-12-25 16:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think unconditional love is when you love someone without expecting anything in return. Willing to sacrifice and will always hope that the someone is always happy. Its compassion....
BUT Love and romance is a selfish love which only involved two person, both expect to love each other only. When one of them have a changing heart loving another person, there will be hatred involved.
I think unconditional love is the best love in the world....
2006-12-25 17:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My opinion is that unconditional love is when you love someone without expecting anything in return
2016-04-13 20:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by Robert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The term unconditional love means you love the other person no matter what (even with there faults or shortcomings). Love and romance is a term used in the courtship of another person like when you do what you can to please and show that you care about them such as take on dates, kiss allot, hold hands and put on a pedestal. I hope I helped you?
2006-12-25 17:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by beamer 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think one of the best examples of unconditional love (leaving the mother s love aside) would be when you love a person who loves someone else. It is easy to love a person who loves u back but it takes great courage and a deep emotional feelings to love a person who loves/is committed to someone else.
2015-05-05 04:36:52 · answer #9 · answered by All_Alone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unconditional love is when you love someone without any condition. You love him and give him everything without needing anything in return. You love him no matter what the difficulties are and this love doesn't fade away but gets stronger each day.
Love and romance is when you love someone and have romantic evenings and make love etc...
2006-12-25 17:07:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋