ok we got a huge prob. i am only 13 and i had sex!!!! i know bad me!!! i should have but we got a prob. i took "3" pregnancy test and they all came out positive... and the bad thing is... my parents dono't know..but wait! it gets worse...the guy i slept with was my... sister's bf! they have been together for 3 yrs! what do i do? help!!!
2006-12-25 16:41:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
you made a few really bad decisions. that doesnt mean it has ot be a bad situation though. If i were you and i was only 13 and had sex with my sisters bf(deff a nono lol) then I would give the baby up for adoption. that is the best thing in the situation you are in. Goood luck!!! talk to your parents ASAP. you can write them a letter or just sit down with one of them at a time.
2006-12-26 04:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You really do need to tell your parents about this. The reason for this is you really need a doctor to test for pregnancy. The OTC tests are not entirely accurate. Your sister's bf should have realized he wasn't with her, but with you--and he knows you are only 13, so this creates a problem for him, as well. No doubt your parents will be upset, and probably mad. But, they are your parents, and they should step in to help you whatever you decide to do (unless they decide for you, which could happen). I hope for you that your next test is negative, and this scare will help you to say no in the future. Good Luck!
2006-12-25 19:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mudcat007 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Every body makes bad choices in their life, some are worse than others but they're are still what they are... bad choices. The thing to do is to admit to them and then try making the right decisions to correct the wrong ones. Sometimes these bad choices hurt ourselves, other times they hurt others. I know that younger people will always make bad decisions because that is how individuals become wiser, by making mistakes and learning from them. Honestly, I've noticed that grown-ups who you think should have figured this out by now still struggle with this concept, however through stubbornness of being set in their ways they deny or dismiss opportunities for self improvement... but that's a whole new ball of wax. In order for you to come to terms with your current situation, you need to start confessing to the people that are directly involved even if it means that you have to subject yourself with the confrontation of the emotional pain you have brought others you care for. In regards to your sisters boyfriend, he obviously doesn't respect her or else he wouldn't have deterred from his current relationship with her. Good luck to you and I hope this will help resolve or at least help you get started on moving this circumstance in the right direction.
2006-12-26 04:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since you are "only 13" you shouldn't be having sex in the first place! And what the hell were you doing having sex with your sister's bf?!
I don't feel bad for you. It's your own fault. If you are old enough to have sex, you are old enough to have a baby. Your mistake. You have to deal with the consequences. And you shouldn't abort a child just because of your stupidity.
Here are some things you can (and should do!!)
1. Keep your legs closed.
2. Pray.
3. Tell your parents.
2006-12-26 02:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Wow, huge stress on you.
Does the guy know?
and how old is he?
did you really want to do it?
why didn't you use protection?
your sister is going to be really really hurt
so are your parents
but you might as well get it out there and decide what you're going to do.
I suppose on the upside you saved your sister a bit of pain
she wont waste any more time with that loser cheater boyfriend
2006-12-25 23:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
O damn, well that sucks for u! but seriously if that actually happened to you. tell your parents they need to know the truth. And seriously 13 year olds shouldn't have sex AT ALL, not even close.
2006-12-25 18:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by candygirl200413 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you do have a problem. You are definitely pregnant, 1 positive test should have told you that. You really need to speak to your parents as soon as possible. They will find out eventually, the quicker you tell them the easier it will be.
Good luck honey.
2006-12-26 04:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first off u shouldnt be effing her boyfriend.
second why even do it? u know u could get pregnant, and yet u still didnt
third, FOR GOD SAKES UR ONLY 13!!! what ever happened to waiting till u were married?!?! jeez, seriously.
and last but not least, go see a doctor, tell ur parents and weigh out ur options. or go to planned parenthood and get some birth control, so it wont happen again
-Mariah
2006-12-25 21:11:21 · answer #8 · answered by Mariah 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
your parents have to know. Tell the truth that usually helps
2006-12-26 05:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by cherryvalley2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well u have to do one thing, tell your parents right now because the longer u leave it the worse it will be.
2006-12-25 18:53:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋