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I'm getting married soon to a very loving man, but I know that his father don't like and don't want me with him what should do I do about it?

2006-12-25 16:20:58 · 5 answers · asked by Jessi 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

We live with his father till our trailer is done. I clean and he works. He father tells everyone I'm lazy and all other kinds of stuff. He also make sexual remarks that neither of us like.

2006-12-26 12:56:31 · update #1

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Focus on your husband and ignore his father.

2006-12-25 16:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 1 0

It doesn't matter what his father wants or doesn't want. You aren't marrying him, are you? What does your fiance say? Does what his father wants or doesn't want, bother him? If not, then why does it bother you.
Leave the Father alone! He is really none of your business any way, and it is none of his business what his son wants, depending on the ages of course. (if you two aren't teenagers, and are both adult) If you are teenagers,
then you have a problem! WAIT until you both are old enough to live on your own and to take care of yourselves. Otherwise, he is under his fathers roof, and needs to listen and obey his father until he becomes of age. But it doesn't sound like you are teen agers.
But still, respect him when you see him, don't be disrespectful, and don't be talking bad about him to your fiance. That is still HIS father, and he does owe his father respect, and has a certain amount of responsiblity towards his father.

2006-12-26 00:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ikeg 3 · 0 0

Your marrying a husband not his father. Hopefully your husband is not very close to his father.

2006-12-26 11:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Try and talk about it with your fiancee and see if there is a resolution. If this doesn't help, then you are in the boat of most people who are married! :<)

My mother-in-law was like this, but she thawed in time. I didn't hold it against my husband that she didn't like me though.

2006-12-26 00:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by Legal_Beagle 2 · 1 0

You are marrying the son and not his father.
I wish you well for your marriage.
His father will just have to accept it.

2006-12-26 00:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by Mark 3 · 1 0

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