My BF and I had sex before he went to work. Just a quickie. I went to the bathroom and it was all good. Then my stomach hurt a little and I had to go again. No big deal I've been peeing alot but then I noticed there was a little blood. Please someone tell me 'this is normal and it happens all the time' 'nothing to worry about' something. My BF and I are getting married, we've been trying for 2 years to get pregnant and now as a Christmas bonus A Baby. Tell me I didn't mess up! Please!
2006-12-25 16:20:18 · 17 answers · asked by Ashley N 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you can have sex when pregnant....... so you didn't do anything wrong
it might be break thru bleeding or
perhaps you miscarried or
if it was an at home-test that gave you your results and you haven't seen a doctor the at home test results could have been wrong......
it could be other things too.......
best bet..... see your doctor with your concerns
2006-12-25 16:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by suesue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first, Having sex while pregnant is not "messing up" this is not your fault and it does happen all the time. A little spotting is normal. Put your feet up or lay on your left side. YOu will be fine. If you start cramping or bleeding alot more go to the Dr. ASAP.
Congratulations and Good Luck.
2006-12-25 16:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by Who Me? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't freak out. I had some small and some really big vaginal bleeding when I passed stools - like, fresh bright red blood, scary - when I was only a month, two months along. And it was fine, nothing was wrong, my pregnancy was ideally healthy. It could mean you are miscarrying, but if you are, then you are -- there'd be nothing to be done. Just don't freak out, keep relaxed and wait and see. If you conceived once, you can again. The vessels "down there" are easier to break because of hormonal changes.
2006-12-25 16:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by zilmag 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe everyone is right and it is no big deal. But from my experience, when I fell down and did a tiny little spot of blood, I was put through hell on earth at the hospital trying to check me out. Geesh! I was poked 28 times for blood tests, etc. Lost a whole lot more blood that way. Then when they were done torturing me, they said I was fine and sent me home. And everything was fine.
2006-12-25 16:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by sick-ovit-all 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you bleeding alot? if so then you probably need to go to the ER...better safe than sorry
if there is just a little blood or spotting, then your fine, something might have torn up there and didnt come out when you went to the bathroom the first time.
Congrats on your Christmas bonus!! i hope that everything is ok
2006-12-25 16:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by toloveastephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what don't blame yourself. If you are loosing your baby that is the last thing you need to think. Yes some women might bleed a little if they have sex while pregnant. But just to make sure call you doctor or go tot he ER just to get checked out. I hope everythings ok. You might wana call your man too. Ask him what he thinks.
2006-12-25 16:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by Kimi is 31 weeks 1/7 w/#2! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens quite frequently after sex. Most times, the vagina is just engorged with blood vessels and preparing itself for baby. It will spot a little after sex.
The thing that concerns me is that you had a little pain. Pain and blood together are not a little concern. It could be nothing, but I suggest you call your gynecologist or the emergency room. I doubt you are miscarrying. It is probably just all the new blood vessels, but it's better to be safe than sorry.
Lacresha
2006-12-25 16:27:02 · answer #7 · answered by Cre 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
this is very common and probably means nothing at all.
Dont freak yourself out, take it easy and see hwat happens.
If you experience and increase in bleeding and it becomes a flow, I would get checked out. There is often nothing that can be done if the pregnancy is goign to be lost and you wont do any harm by waiting to see what will happen
I would mention it at your next, or first if you havnt had one, prenatal with your midwife or doctor.
2006-12-25 16:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by cradlinghands 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be normal to have a little bleeding after sex when you are preggo....If it is a tiny bit ( like a dot ) and it is brown, then don't worry, esp if you arent cramping!!! However, if it is bright red, then you need to get to the doc asap. Also, if you arent cramping at all, and it was a tee tiny bright red spot, then chances are you are ok, but you still need to go to the doc to make sure!!!!
2006-12-25 16:25:50 · answer #9 · answered by marymojo2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,calm down first getting upset will only make things worse,stress on the baby and pain and blood don't mix, go to the hospital and get check out, you will rather be safe than sorry... Blessing with your Christmas bonus!!!
2006-12-25 16:56:33 · answer #10 · answered by jakhiamylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DID NOTHING WRONG !!! Please calm down. First of all, it is normal when you are pregnant, that after sex you spot bleed. It doesn't last long & it will stop. It is normal. However, if you are concerned about how much blood there is, or how long it persists, contact your doc so they can check you out! Best wishes & have a blessed new year!
2006-12-25 16:23:19 · answer #11 · answered by IMHO 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋