no one understands becuse i just dont like guys i like girls. i am about 95 persecnt straight and 5 gay so can anyone help me like tell me a verse from the bible becuase i am catholic and i want to respect god and dont want to go to hell
2006-12-25 16:10:33 · 11 answers · asked by x to the z 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
i do not want to dissopoint my family and my dad has cancer so i think he really dosent need this. i am only 12 and a virgin so i need to be cured so i can have kids and live a normal life
2006-12-25 16:12:19 · update #1
is this normal? when youre 12ve to be going through this. i am not happy with myself. i always have this fuzzy feeling in my stomach
2006-12-25 16:21:42 · update #2
are these hormon thoughts
2006-12-25 16:22:21 · update #3
thanks carmas530 for that it really helped
2006-12-25 16:23:25 · update #4
sugar, lots of kids are confused about their sexual orientation at your age. don't second guess your gut. if you feel fuzzy for one sex or another, then that's what you're in to. if you feel fuzzy for both, you're bi. you've got lots of time to figure this stuff out.
just be yourself. God doesn't make mistakes. you are, will be, and always have been just as God intended you to be.
brightest blessings
2006-12-25 16:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the female body is simply put, beautiful. women are just gorgeous. almost every woman in the world has something about them that is irresistible. Most women have more than one beautiful feature. women are sleek, like silk ribbon falling through the air. men however, don't hold the same appeal to me. my boyfriend is pretty amazing and has a really nice face. but all men are kind of blocky, no offense to any guy out there. would i give up my beautiful features to be considered straight and not bi? no, i don't think so.
2016-05-23 07:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez you're only 12? Don't worry about it! A lot of kids are confused about their sexuality throughout their preteen/teen years. What makes you think you're bi anyway? Most of it is probably completely normal stuff, especially for your age. Don't worry about it, and don't worry about telling your family. You have PLENTY of time to figure that stuff out, so just live your life and don't worry about "coming out" as you are probably just having confusing, hormonal thoughts that lots of people do at a young age.
2006-12-25 16:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, have you had a gay encounter, and or sexual experience??? If so than it might be a lil harder bcuz maybe you like it and when you like something it is hard to stop doing it. If not than consider yourself blessed and its just something your going through right now and you should just put those thoughts to the side and focus on other things. either way you will need to pray,keep the faith, and remember one quote " God made Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve. Good luck bro remember this and you will be alright
2006-12-25 16:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
"95% straight, 5% gay"?? okay let's just forget that part. Just because you have feelings for guys does NOT mean you have to act on those feelings.
And sorry to tell you but there is no "cure" for changing you sexuality, it's not a disease or something you can help.
Yes I'm 16 and I can say it's normal especially around your age.
2006-12-25 16:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by 412 KiD 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You poor kid, you're young yet, it's natural you're going to experiment. Listen, I have gay and bi friends who are the nicest people you are going to meet. They are also more religious and better people than I am and i'm straight. Just live your life and follow your heart, try your best gay, bi or straight and God will love you anyway. And maybe you shouldn't let your parents know until you're older. My friends didn't come out until they were around 17, worry about it then, enjoy middle school for now.
2006-12-25 16:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by uconn4141 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No one can change how they naturally feel when it comes to sexual orientation. Just accept who you are. I'm bisexual and I'm just fine with it!
It has nothing to do with needing to be "cured". And anyway, you're ONLY 12 years old. You don't know what your orientation is exactly. Don't judge yourself on one experience. You need go out there and experiment when you're older and THEN decide how you really feel.
2006-12-25 16:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I think everyone at one point or another is bisexual. Nothing to be ashamed of. I'm going to try my best to be respectful of your religious beliefs. I doubt you'd go to hell for liking a male, but I doubt there is some magical "cure" out there. I guess you can always lie to yourself and use a lot of self discipline.
2006-12-25 16:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i' like to introduce you to a couple of poems that might give you a helping hand to gaining a better point of view toward life in general.
Rudyard Kipling wrote a poem called "if". the other one helped me over the years it's called "desiderata".it's anonymous. both are accessible on the Internet.....see if there's something in them for you......good luck....you're still very young with lots of life and fun ahead of you. do yourself a favor and don't try to grow up too fast or you'll miss so much of the fond memories you could be making.
2006-12-25 16:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 12, you don't need to figure this out. Lots of people are confused at your age. Just love your dad and pray for him: he needs your support right now.
2006-12-25 16:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋