what should one do if they love someone and get married with someone else and after marriage u still dont love that guy and that guy also does not love u does not care for ur feelings and then u still have relationship with the other guy. help me
2006-12-25 16:04:13 · 13 answers · asked by Issha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I assume you've discussed this with your husband. Since you both have decided you do not love each other, then get a speedy agreeable divorce. Then go back to the other one that you think you love. But PLEASE do NOT marry this one for at least a year!
2006-12-25 16:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
issha may be Ur so into Ur bf that u cant see Ur hubby's good side Ur only seeing his bad site well if Ur not at all willing to be with Ur hubby then talk to him get divorced or if u want to save Ur marriage give Ur hubby a chance to love u show Ur affection n respect to Ur hubby talk to him what u like dislike n know from him what he like or dislikes be like his good Friend then only love can enter in Ur marriage life OK do what U feel is right but remember Ur decision can change not only Ur life but others life too so just do good OK
best of luck
god bless you
2006-12-26 01:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by shabana o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the reason they have pre-marital counseling because maybe if you had had that you would have realized before you got married. Why would you get married if you still have a relationship with the other guy?
2006-12-26 00:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by frustrated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a catch 22 situation!It's better to call off such incompatible relationships for everyone's peace of mind.
Three lives seem to be embroiled here. Think practically & take a stand.
2006-12-29 09:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have 2 choices:-
1. completely forget your ex and start working on your relationship with your spouse.
2. Discuss things with your ex. If you both are determined to live your life together under all circumstances, then get divorced on mutual consent and get married to your ex.
2006-12-27 13:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by raindrops 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get marriage counseling first and no cheating. If that does not work, get a divorce. But you should not cheat on your spouse. Get a divorce before you get involved again.
The grass is always greener on the other side.
2006-12-26 00:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by Legal_Beagle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y would you marry someone you didn't love?
I guess its to late now, so learn from your mistake.
I would not be with him if you don't love him...
Make yourself happy, with out worrying about what man is out there.Just look at your marriage and if you are not happy then move on.
2006-12-26 00:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well issha if m not wrong i think u tried to live ur life with ur husband forgettting ur bf but when u saw that ur husband does not love u and does not care for u ....u happened to get inclined back towards ur bf who loved and cared u the way u wanted it to be.....n now when u know that u love ur bf i wud suggest u ask ur bf will he marrry u now and if he says yes please get divorced with ur husband ( as he does not love u it mite be easy) and marrry ur bf but if ur bf is not ready to get marrried to u i m afraid that life may take a turn which u might regret later on so please discuss with ur bf and if ur bf doesnt intend to get marrried pleas re- think and save ur relationship with ur husband
2006-12-26 05:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by sameer_billu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... Thanx for 2 points dear...
I should suggest you to leave everything upon time and God... Everything will be alright soon
God Bless U
Sur
2006-12-27 03:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u marry when u cant move ahead in life and ruin all three lives. either adjust ureself with the married person or free him.
2006-12-26 00:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by yourfreind_forlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋