2006-12-25 15:55:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ur how old??? what do your parents have to do with it? if it is your life and someone u love then go for it...otherwise...it must not be true
2006-12-25 15:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by Eastcoast beachgirl 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tough one. Do your parents not like her because of something she's done - or her reputation? If that's the case - look closely at their reasons. Parents are very often right.
Now if it's because of her religion or her heritage - then you need to think carefully. If you marry this girl against your parents' wishes - you will very likely ruin your relationship with your parents. Is she worth it? Are you absolutely sure that you will be happy with her for the rest of your life - even if it means no relationship with your family? Does she know that even though your parents may be wrong in their thinking that you will be giving them up for her? Think about it - and think about it hard.
How old are you? How long have you known her? Why do you love her? There are so many things not included in your questions that would make answering it easier. This is the best I could do. Hope it helps.
2006-12-26 00:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by liddabet 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be an adult and not a child. If you want to marry someone then do it. Your parents will complain to you about everything. Big secret? They complain about everything to each other. Your mom will find fault with your dad and your dad will find things to nag your mom about. Nothing will ever be good enough for them, even each other. Face it, they love to complain so you might as well do what you want. It's your life, not theirs. What they want is not what you want. Are you not your own person? Don't you have your own identity? Then stop playing along with your parents that you're some puppet of theirs.
2006-12-26 00:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by Emily N 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you need to have or have to have your parent's permission to marry than you are to young to even be thinking about it. If you are the legal age to marry then talk to them and see why they are against it. Your parents probably have some very good reasons for their stand. Show them how mature you are by listening to their concerns and answering their questions. Then if the two of you are sure you love each other and are willing to accept the consequences of marriage then go for it.
2006-12-26 00:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by GPHS 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you have not told your age and economic condition. if you are still depending on your parents money and if you are not a major, It is good to listen to your parents at this moment. first try to get enough money to lead your own life. and by the time you get that money, you will also have enough time to convince your parents about your intentions. if you are a major and have got enough economical independence you should approach a good advocate and get your marriage registered in a Sub registrar office. (you should do that if you wish no trouble from anyone) and you can do that without any obstruction from anyone if you are major and having enough means to support your girl. if not it is good to stayback and wait for some more time. good luck.
2006-12-28 15:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by Advocate Bob 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with the others, if you are the age of majority, then your parents cannot stop what you do. However, they may make your life miserable, take away money, etc. Then it is a matter of standing up for yourself, but make sure that you are making the right decision. They could be seeing something that you are "love blind" to now.
2006-12-26 01:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by Legal_Beagle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you are from a different culture, if you respect and love your parents then you must trust that they have your best interests at heart. If it is true love the girl will understand the situation that you are in and give you the freedom to do what you must to honor your family. There seems to be less and less honor in the world these days, trust yourself to do the right thing.
2006-12-26 00:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try and talk to ur parents if they dont agree then go and get married things will settle later now think about urself. I am not saying to go against ur parents but u too should think of ur happiness. Life long you will suffer if u r not happy in ur married life. If you love someone then go ahead and get married, ur parents might be against but later after sometime passes they will forgive for what you have done.
2006-12-25 23:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by Issha 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You don't mention how old you are, if you've finished your education, if you are of age, if you are employed and can afford a marriage. You need to take care of these priorities first. Then the decision will be yours alone. If you still have business to take care of, your parents are right to not want you to marry someone for them to take care of.
2006-12-25 23:58:39 · answer #9 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its left to u its u who has to raise a question yourself that without whom u can live? but i prefer to go with your parents just because they are the one who made u to live in this world and they are the reason today u are loving a girl,think suppose if they hadn't given u the birth then there was no question of your girl today , so pls choose your parents
2006-12-26 02:10:52 · answer #10 · answered by anand k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
varun try to talk to Ur parents about this girl tell them how much love her if they cant understand
I hope ur an adult
just court marriage with her first then later tell Ur parents that u got married to love of Ur life they have to accept her as their daughter in low because Ur married so simple sometimes parents cant understand there children's love so u go ahead n get married to whom u love dint worry about Ur parents they will understand it sooner or later
best of luck
god bless u
2006-12-26 01:53:34 · answer #11 · answered by shabana o 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋