my girlfriend is married and have a daughter, she's bi and want to be with me (female) i'm not into girls. When i meet her i never knew she was like bi. After she came out and start telling me how she feel about me, and i don't know what to tell her i don't know is to stop talking to her or just keep listening. I started to get fedup of everything she be telling me
2006-12-25 15:35:59 · 13 answers · asked by darkangel 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If your not into it just tell her so. She has to respect your orientation the same way that you have been respecting hers.
2006-12-25 18:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats too bad she had to come out with her feelings for you. In that way she crossed a bridge that is difficult to ever patch up back into just a friendship.
I think you have to be straight (and I don't mean orientation)--she is married--you don't say whether you are gay, bi or straight--but it dosen't matter you have to lay in on the line --you know "sister--you're married I am not going to get involved in this--if it is possible we can move on from this fine--if not it is becoming a real bum for me." If she can move on fine--otherwise--drop her.
2006-12-26 02:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by beckychr007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her husband that she propositioned you.. chances are, you're not the only girl she is after.. she is going to ruin her family and could potentially hurt her daughter if she keeps this up.
sad when people have to cheat.. bi or not, isn't really the issue..
2006-12-25 23:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you do not like girls though. That way she will respect you and just say you just wanna be friends with her and nothing more.
good luck
2006-12-26 02:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by blondebeauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is a true friend to you, I feel you should be able to tell her...you are not bisexual and that you like men. Tell her if she wants to continue a friendship that it would have to be strictly platonic.
2006-12-25 23:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by tanya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her what you really feel.. that though you respect what she really is, you're not into that kind of relationship setup..
just be honest.. if she woudnt listen, give some space..
2006-12-26 03:23:31 · answer #6 · answered by mystery moo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you aren't ready for a relationship with a girl just yet, and that you are attracted to males.
2006-12-25 23:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by ipodlady231 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to be honest with her.She should work hard to save her marriage.
2006-12-25 23:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by sneakers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try it, you might like it!!!! Many girls have. Its really not that uncommon for girls to try it. Never know!
2006-12-25 23:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by willie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her how you feel.
honesty rocks!
have a nice day.
2006-12-25 23:38:45 · answer #10 · answered by sharrron 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋