We've kinda chit chatted about "us" before, but I don't really feel she's interested from fear of ruining a good friendship. But she's comes over just about every day. Do I just stop kicking it her? Do I tell her I can't ignore passions of the heart, or do I pretend it will work itself out when I know it won't?
2006-12-25 15:08:15 · 10 answers · asked by MrAbstruse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That is when you have a serious conversation with her and tell her how you feel and see how she feels about you. Make sure when you tell her that you also tell her that you friendship is very important to you and even if there couldnt be anything between yall or even if there was and something would go wrong that you dont want to lose her as a friend. Yall have been friends for to long to let a relationship come between the two of you. So dont stop hanging out with her because yall have came to far together already. Hope this helps
2006-12-25 15:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by blazin_cripz_2006_0wner.sheena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling her "I love you" is an important step in building intimacy in a relationship.
Instructions
STEP 1: Think about when and where you want to tell her. Is there a special place you want to be? A certain day? For example, you might want to tell her at the restaurant where you went on your first date, or on the two-month or nine-month anniversary of your first date. STEP 2: Set the mood and be romantic. Buy her flowers or a romantic gift. STEP 3: Look at her directly, take her hand and tell her how positive you feel about her. Give her examples of things you really like about her. Be sincere. STEP 4: Tell her how you feel being with her, and how much you enjoy your time together. Be specific about what you value and appreciate about being with her. STEP 5: Follow these positive statements with telling her you love her in whatever way feels best for you. For example: "I feel I've come to love you," "I realize I love you," "I feel so much love for you," "I've fallen in love with you," or simply, "I love you." Tips & Warnings
Prepare yourself mentally and emotionally for her possible response if you are not sure whether she feels the same way about you. For example: If you are hoping she will say "I love you" in return, what if she doesn't?
Decide if you are ready to be that vulnerable and if you could handle whatever she may say.
Go for it if you feel ready to take the risk. Love is risky!
Be sober when you proclaim your love. If you have to drink to tell her how you feel, you are not ready.
2006-12-25 23:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by JKR 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will never know unless you ask. She may feel the same way you do. Unless she talks about a significant other to you. Let her know how you feel. Great relationships are built on great friendships.
2006-12-25 23:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by Ucan2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i been there before but not has deep has you. it was a real good relationship and we went out and broke up in 2 days but wea re still goods friends and even better becuse we don't have that werid feeling.
2006-12-25 23:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by cj7794@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop kickin it...and turn up the school work a notch or two...there is nothing wrong with friends...if you can't be friends who are patient with each other...there can be no "us"
2006-12-25 23:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by jdoug_sellers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her how much you love her friendship before you tell her you love her.
2006-12-25 23:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by Delta Charlie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell the truth nothing can be better then that . write a love letter or tell your face to face
2006-12-25 23:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by lilski2029 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know maybe u should give it up
2006-12-25 23:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by amasia s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her you should tel her..
2006-12-25 23:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell her..
2006-12-25 23:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by swe3tsiLence~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋