is it the pregnancy? will it bring us closer? im 27 wks pregnant
2006-12-25 15:01:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your little body is going through so many changes now. You are exhausted, you don't always feel well, your hormones are just going bonkers.
I hope he understood. If not, tell him. I hope you have the most beautiful baby in the world! Congratulations.
2006-12-25 15:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by maamu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe a pregnancy will truly bring you closer, coming from one who had been divorced. If there are problems in a relationship, things can occur to cause one to treat another nice. But these things, such as, a pregnancy, do not last forever. Eventually, the problems that existed before the pregnancy will come out once again, unless it is resolved before it comes back. To think, a pregnancy will make it all better is definitely not the solution, it is a method to avoid dealing with the negative issues. When these issues do arise again there will be a child involved next time. To me, this is the same as asking " Do we stay together for the kids" and both are answered with a no. If it's over, then let it die and move on, pregnant or not.
2006-12-25 23:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be the hormones. However, I have heard that when a person mentions divorce in any relationship it is because they are thinking that it is a way out, if need be in the future. I guess, I would need to know more about what you and your spouse were discussing before you said it. Also, I wouldn't assume that a baby is going to bring you and your husband closer. Unfortunately, it can do quite the opposite and has to many couples. If you and your husband think that you argue and disagree a lot now, just wait. When your child is born it could bring on many more arguments and disagreements. Just keep this in mind, be open and honest with your guy, and ask him to do this in return. Remember that this child is the most important thing in the world, and do what's best foe him/her. Sometimes that may mean leaving the father behind. Best wishes to you all.
2006-12-25 23:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jeanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will the pregnancy bring you closer? Don't think of the baby as a tool to bring people together. I had a relative who did it and it did not work! It may be your hormones making you feel this way. Then again, don't fully pin these feelings on the hormones. Search yourself and see if there's a reason for why you said these words. If it turns out you just went crazy, then appologize to your husband and tell him it's not true. You don't want him to be uncertain about the relationship or your feelings for him at a time like this.
2006-12-25 23:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by charity16sand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely it's the pregnancy. I was as mean as a rattle snake when I was pregnancy and I told my husband that I wouldnt blame him if he left and come back after the baby's born. But he didnt of course. Tell your husband that you didnt mean what you said and ask his forgiveness for hurting his feeling. Then warn him that you might say some ugly things again while pregnant and not to take you seriously. This is a sensitive time in both your lives and it would be good to start praying together for your marriage and the health of your new baby, if you aren't already doing so.
2006-12-25 23:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by ODP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones
2006-12-25 23:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO I remember those days. It's the hormones. I once told my (at the time) bf to stop breathing because he was breathing too loud! The bad part is, I really wanted him to stop!!! You will go through all kinds of phases and if you need anymore advice feel free to email me. I'd be glad to help, I've had 3 kids lol. Good luck and congratulations.
2006-12-25 23:09:41 · answer #7 · answered by Wicked 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him ? Was this baby planned by you ???Does he know you got pregnant to bring ya'll closer together or did you get pregnant by accident and hope it will bring ya'll closer together? Alot of unanswered questions. Ya'lls ages??? If you add to your story maybe we can answer better?
2006-12-25 23:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day i cried because my husband did laundry and didnt wash a shirt i wanted to wear...i told him we wore to many clothes and went on a rampage to say the least.....pregnancy hormones can be awful. Hopefully your husband is understanding like mine, and you guys will laugh later about the temper tantrums and stuff! haha good luck
2006-12-25 23:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by misty n justin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, tossing out the divorce card is number one on Dr. Phils list of "how to make your relationship better."
2006-12-25 23:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋