she moved to a new school when i was entering 5th grade. we meet on myspace anyways. but when she was in my school in those five years, it seemed like she was avoiding me and held a personal grudge against me. but whenever i go on my myspace, she always seems so kind and so social. then we got into a fight. now I held a personal grudge against her. yesterday, i saw her and her family when i was altar serving. i thought about our friendship in the past.... wat can i do to be friends again?
2006-12-25 14:50:25 · 12 answers · asked by xxmawrxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just talk to her. If talking or confronting her is hard, email her on myspace, and ask her what is up.
2006-12-25 15:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by joulesofaffection 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people tell two different stories about who they are, personally you have to see if your 5 year relationship is worth loosing..You have to see the whole picture, and the only way to do that is to just sit down and let her talk, don't put her in the judgment chair because all she will do is fight back..To avoid stepping on any toes, ask if she wants to meet up somewhere and have coffee, your treat then sit down and ask her what her feeling are with your friendship, remember this is not up to debate you just want her side, if she ask why you go on with " I don't want our 5 year friendship to be thrown down the toilet, I feel that we have slowly slipped away especially at school, Can we manage to put this back together?" Then go home an analyze the situation come up with a plan and stick with it. If she's jumping ship then I am sorry for your loss but believe me there are many more fish in the sea...
2006-12-25 15:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her there is more important things for yall to do than hold a grudge against each other when yall have been friends for so long. Tell her yall need to be more mature about the situation and talk it out in a properly manor. Yall should become friends after talking and shorting your problems out. Hope this Helps.
2006-12-25 14:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by blazin_cripz_2006_0wner.sheena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has no longer kissed you in 5 years then he in all threat is high no longer a boyfriend.greater like a pal..If the the two certainly one of you're an merchandise then some thing is somewhat incorrect with this image..you're able to talk with him and ask him why..
2016-10-28 09:03:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication by computer is a godsend for many, but it is also wracked with problems: you don't see nonverbal behavior. And we also seem to send things too quickly before thinking them over.
I would talk to her by phone.
One thing you have to remember too is that in adolescence, our friendships can change before we are ready for a change. Hold onto the support of your family and your other friends.
Good luck.
2006-12-25 14:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't forget about personal grudges...that's ridiculous...my space is a frickin video game...its not real...and people don't act real on it...Use this opportunity for personal growth...not personal grudges
2006-12-25 14:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by jdoug_sellers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the more mature person, and apologize for the fight. Tell her that you'd like to remain friends.
Once you've done that, its all in her court... and she needs to decide whether or not she wants to be mature about it or not...
-dh
2006-12-25 14:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive and forget, friends do fight time to time. Life is go on, don’t go back to dwell on that fight. Next time you talk with her say something nice and positive.
2006-12-25 14:57:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking is always good for starters!!! Let her know how you feel, let her know that you value the friendship, go from there. Good Luck.
2006-12-25 14:55:25 · answer #9 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to them and tell them exactly how you feel, if a friendship is meant to be, it will happen.
2006-12-25 14:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋