Sorry for the disturbance, but there is one problem that make me irritate and slightly can't concentrate my studies as well...... I really don't know what happening to my friend..... Is he really that serious to tell me that he want to be my enemy? Perhaps, it may be a half fact since after that word he spoken out, he often avoid me when I start to mingle with him and intentionally spoke me a harsh word. Did he have a plan to make me angry? Is he just joking? Honestly, we have a close competition in academic matter. Is this fight involve in this matter? Hope there is someone who can make me an advise........
2006-12-25 14:47:58 · 13 answers · asked by topet_toperdy 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Overcome his hate with love and friendship.
If you see he needs help with a paper or other schoolwork, make a suggestion, and leave it at that.
If he needs a ride, or something as simple as a pencil, offer him one. If he refuses, shrug your shoulders and say "Okay"
2006-12-25 15:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by sneakers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult to lose a friendship. I do not know what happened, or how serious it was, so it is difficult to give you advice.
I would suggest you just leave him alone for awhile. Smile when you see him, that's it. If you have a mutual friend, possibly they could help you get these differences patched up.
2006-12-25 14:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by maamu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on wat u did.
there was this one girl that i was bff with her from kindergarten to halfway through 6th grade. then we sort of lost touch and by the end of 6 grade she did something really mean. it wasn't just that that pissed me off. i realized that over the years she took advantage of our friendship and she wasn't a good enough friend. that's when i ended our friendship. then after not talking to her for about 6 months, she apologized a very bad apology. and as much as i thought she didn't deserve it, i gave her a 2nd chance. apparently i shouldn't have. she did something stupid and i stopped talking to her again. it's been about 2 months and i haven't talked to her yet. i don't know if i ever will.
2006-12-25 14:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were truly freinds then you may just need to allow him/her time to heal. I would back off give the person time, then write a letter and say something like "I would like us to remain freinds however I feel I need to respect your wishes therefore I have backed away. I hope someday you will call me."
Good luck and god bless,
2006-12-25 14:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by Kdude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's kind of a strange joke if it is one. You could ask him if he was joking, but I think this guy has a mental problem and you should not consider him your friend. Just feel sorry for him but avoid him if you can.
2006-12-25 14:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. Sounds a bit jeolous to me. I'd definitely keep him close till I figured out his motives. And ya know what? No one needs "friends" like this. "Friends" don't avoid each and speak harshly to each other.
2006-12-25 14:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by Freedspirit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beware! He may be playing an unsconscious game with you to manipulate you somehow.
In any case give him his time and space after you have said that you are sorry.
2006-12-25 15:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by Russell W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Friend could be competitive, and he /she found you that you are smarter than him / her, so is nature humans instinct to destroy what ever makes them feel less, so they could stay on top of the latter of evolution.
~survival of the fittest~ Darwin, Law.
2006-12-25 14:58:32 · answer #8 · answered by non existance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really good friends dont or wont behave like this, try ignoreing him till he get his **** together and grows up a little ,then and only then just talk. life too short for fighting ...........
he pissed off, he coem around give him time on his own
2006-12-25 15:13:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have done something really bad for a friend to say something like that. Leave him alone.
2006-12-25 14:50:07 · answer #10 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋