My husband didn't get me anything for christmas yet, but he says he will tommorrow.
Also I have just felt moody all day.Like I want to cry for no reason.
2006-12-25 14:43:45 · 17 answers · asked by mommyof2 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, I'd be upset. It's a little disappointing when things like that happen. It's not about getting a gift, either. It's about him being thoughtful and planning and thinking about what you might want - and then following through. Effort. When there's no effort it just kind of hurts your feelings.
2006-12-25 14:47:18 · answer #1 · answered by matty.. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on the reason he waited. Perhaps he didn't have enough money to buy you what he wanted to and is waiting for the after Christmas sales, so that he can get you something very special. Not everyone is good at pre-planning and when it comes to money, it's difficult for many to save up the right amount or to even know what the right amount would be by the time they are able to buy it.
The season really shouldn't be about material gift. If you have a healthy, happy family that is what means the most at this time of year. So many people are without family or friends and I am thankful that I have someone to be with during the holiday season.
I think as a society we tend to forget that it's the little things that enrich our soul and keeps our heart warm.
Raise your chin, look at all that you are blessed with, consider what your life would be like without it and then smile because you do not have to be alone, unless you chose it.
2006-12-25 22:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by T esira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just trust him, it's okay to feel moody, it's what woman are, if he didn't tell the truth, then you can get angry (or upset). Your present may be something better than he could give you on christmas. If you love him, then trust him. Go ahead and cry for no reason, again it's what we do. It's good to let it out everyonce in awhile. Don't stress, relax. That's the best thing you can do.
2006-12-25 23:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by who_is_audrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christmas has not been a secret that has just been revealed.
I would be majorly ticked off. He is an IDIOT, JERK, and not really a husband. You should have been at the top of his gift list and not second best.
Revenge is a dish best served cold.
You would have gotten more than a few gifts if you were mine.
2006-12-25 22:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a great reason for not getting you anything, like his parent is sick, or work is absolutely crap for him then I would let it slide. If nothing extreme is happening is his life then yes, I would be a little upset. Unless he never got me gifts in which case then it would be the status quo.
Good luck. I hope you feel better. The holidays are always hard.
2006-12-25 22:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, I would be very upset. You have a reason for wanting to cry all day. He's a jerk if he didn't even try to get you anything. I would cheer up by leaving him but that's just me. I can do better.
2006-12-25 22:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by CapeCodGram 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would seem to me,that this isn't what Christmas is about.As others have said,if their is a finacial reason why he hasn't bought you something that's one thing.I know my spouse and I dont buy each other christmas gifts cuz it's about the kids,NOT us.We make it up on other times of the yr.Holidays make alot of people depressed.What u r feeling is very common.I hope this helps,and if not,shop for yourself like I do sometimes.get a pedicure,nails done,etc.Treat YOU!!!
2006-12-25 23:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Keri S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it really about the present? Ask yourself that. Sounds like there is something else there. I think he should have gotten you a little something and said the other gift is coming. Look within yourself for the real answer. You will find it there. Then admit it to yourself.
2006-12-25 22:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by cripesokay2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christmas is about being with family,friends,,your love ones,
good health.big deal i didn't get anything either,but i had family and friends at my house spending quality time together.kids opened presents and we all had a GREAT CHRISTMAS.
just be grateful you woke up this morning.I found out this afternoon that a real good friend died in his sleep this morning.
so just be thankful you have life today.
if you have kids,hope they had a good Christmas.
2006-12-25 22:59:11 · answer #9 · answered by hl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feeling unloved makes you want to cry all the time
i would be upset too. they say its the thought that counts well where is the thought in not getting you anything?
when people ask you what he got you tell them the truth Nothing and say it in front of him might make him feel a bit ashamed of himself I hope
To cheer up go shopping and put it on his credit card
2006-12-25 22:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋