Okay me and my significant other have been trying to have a baby for about four months......I been off the pill for about 9 to 10 months now. I always had a very regular and heavy flow during my menstrual every month and it last for about 6 to 7 days. But....
Last month I came on my menstrual 3 days early, for the first 3 days i bleed heavy and then for the last 4 i spotted.
Then This month my menstraul came on 5 days early and it last for about 10 days. I spotted for 6 days and it became heavy.
I took a pregnancy testboth times this happened and it said negative. I went to the doctor and took a blood pregnancy test the first time i came on early and it said negative the doctor also said it could be to early to test.
Whats Going on this is making me sad and my man sad we just want to have a lil one of our own. So HELP Please........
2006-12-25 14:31:01 · 7 answers · asked by Laverne B 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Your period is probably being crazy because you are stressing over the situation. Believe me, I have a lil one and my husband and I are TTC but when you worry about it and try to hard it messes everything up. Take a breath and relax, let things flow naturally and when u're not trying it'll jus happened. That's what happened 2 me wit my 1st. It has only been 4 months sometimes it does take ppl longer than that. U have 2 at least be trying 4 a full year be4 a doc. will do nething 4 u. So good luck and lots of baby dust ur way......
2006-12-25 14:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by ANC_40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright FIRST THING IS STOP TRYING SO HARD !! The stress produced by both of you is what I'm feeling. Are you both in good health ? Their are "peak" times in a woman's cycle and you need to make a chart so you both know. Smoking-drinking-eating habits they need to be looked at. For your man he may have a low sperm count , AGE is a factor also. You can go to a specialist fertility doctor or clinic and spend enormous fee's ! You both want a child agreed ! Quit tryin to force it or you'll only be even more disappointed. Pay ATTENTION: MAKE LOVE to EACH OTHER ! Your highest peak time is right after you finish your cycle, get in tune with your body, You know when your feeling the maternal urges, an old wives tale is place the woman on top and have a male , with the woman on the bottom you'll have the female. Put some ROMANCE in your life! A common problem is a retained egg folical, basically the women doesn't get that exploding orgasm and the very small amount of eggs released. This makes the fertilization factor difficult. The difficulties of conception are too numerous to explain here. Ask for the "LOVE" of an angel into your life and miracles can Happen ! Peace and LOVE be with YOU BOTH !!
2006-12-26 01:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by Chris C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step 1) Let go of the worry and trust it will happen.
Step 2) Screw like minks in heat about 14 days after the start of your period. You're ovulating and this is especially noticable when you see a difference in your discharge, ie more mucusy. Sorry to be gross, but that's mother nature.
Step 3) repeat as necessary...for me, 2 months.
Good luck to you, I will pray it happens for you!
2006-12-25 22:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's gross but keep track of your vaginal discharge and the quality of your cervical fluid (you have to go inside to check that) if is kinda sticky and "rubber cementy" your are in the beginning/end of your fertile period, next step up is creamy or "lotiony" and baby making kind is lubricative or like "egg white" you build up to egg and back during your fertile period, the egg white shows up the day of ovulation and is the most hospitable for sperm.
2006-12-25 23:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by lizincali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry when the time is right it will happen if you are stressing it wont just let it happen..... as for the periods it could be because of the pill maybe your body is re ajusting to being normal with out hormones. remember it could take as long as 18 months to get pregnant after you quit taking the pill especially if its your first child but watch out after the first you will get pregnant more easily.....
2006-12-25 22:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by billie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a true story...My wife and I were also having problems conceiving a child till she went to Dr.DICKEY,He is a fertility doctor.she told me his name and I thought she was joking till I seen the card,I LAUGHED FOR HOURS,You might need a doctor like this,the easiest thing to do is get him checked first,that's what we did,come to find out she was diabetic,with some simple med.she took we had 2 shortly after.
2006-12-25 22:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by J.B.1972 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex more often, and have it for longer periods of time.
2006-12-26 01:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by thegreatone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋