2006-12-25 14:06:18 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
thanks for the 6 thumbs up...
happy new year!!
2006-12-25 14:12:11 · update #1
Faith in myself and others. I can never exactly know that the other person loves me as much since I can't guage it and that terrifies me to the point where I don't know what to do or say when I feel jealous or if I'm even allowed to feel that way... which leads in me being a whipped doormat. ^_^
2006-12-25 14:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by Masta Batang Dollar Billz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I beg to disagree with Lordz. lol.I don't find "love making" as i call it and not sex so hard to master.. sex is just an ingredient in a relationship and if you love someone, it's automatically present and you will just enjoy the time of being together.. If you are deeply in love with the person, sex is not your priority.. You will be contented with sincere and passionate hugs and kisses and that's all that matters.. Afterall, when the time comes that both of you became old, you will set aside sex and you will only be longing for "companionship" Besides, you can satisfy each other when it comes to "sex" by telling her/him what you want.. All you need is an open communication..
To answer your question, I find so hard to master how to forget the past. In fact we can't really forget the past especially if it has something to do with your present situation.. I can trust him but there is always a doubt because of what happened in the past and I'm having a hard time to forget it.. I can forgive but I can't forget.. But i know, forgetting yesterday can lead to a better today and the best of tomorrow.. AMEN! lol
2006-12-26 17:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by ok 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Continuity
2006-12-25 14:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by honeyinmidga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for me is the trust issue. I have a hard time trusting other boys. I don't even know how I can overcome my problem. I also tend to push away when I start to get really close to other guys as well. Something else I am having a hard time with :-)
2006-12-25 14:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex
A lot of your answerer's said "trust" but they meant sex. I say sex and I mean all that comes from it.
If you want an intimate relationship, sex is like dancing, you have to learn how to communicate what you want to do and learn what the other person wants to do and see what you can do together, and one of you may have to lead. It takes timing, and practice to keep from stepping on each other's toes, so to speak.
If all you want is a friendship, sex is like the cape in a bullfight, it is all that stands between you and the other person in the relationship. The other person is attracted to the cape but if you move it at the right moment nothing bad will happen to either you or the other person.
Sure trust comes into play in a relationship as does love and honesty, but those shouldn't be problems, merely dance steps. If you keep them in balance, your relationship will do fine.
But, sex ia how you choose your partner and if you choose wisely you will never want a new partner, and if you don't, you will pray for others to cut in.
I hope this has helped.
(And the music plays...)
2006-12-26 04:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Trust is definitely a big one.
And then there's friendship... it's often hard to be friends and lovers. But once you reach a balance, that's incredible.
2006-12-25 14:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by falzalnz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting into a relationship!
2006-12-25 14:07:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Handling conflict constructively. It's always hard to balance the needs of both people.
2006-12-25 14:11:59 · answer #8 · answered by cotopaximary 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Communication & Honesty.
2006-12-25 15:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The communication part... I love talking, but not about the 'important' things. I'm working on it, though.
2006-12-25 14:11:11 · answer #10 · answered by Kd 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋