Addicted to him?

Question

I have this friend, and he's awesome. I met him about 10 months ago through an earlier friend, and we've grown very close. However, I think I'm going insane. I'm serious. Even the slightest thing will pull my mind to him; when I'm bored and have nothing to do I find myself almost role-playing inside my head of situations we could be in. I hope I'm not in love with him, but I think I might be. He considers me more than a friend, and he loves me, but not in the "let's go out" kind of sense. He said that he would be willing to die for me, and that it's brother/sister love. I thought that's how I felt too, but now I'm not sure. I seem to be writing tons of poems about him, me, us, and life in general. My friend, who loves him, no less, says that I "depend on him too much". That's probably true. I've had the suspicion that I liked him practically since I met him. Any time I think about him, I get this burst of energy. Is this normal? Am I addicted, insane, in love? Examples would be good.

Alright, so maybe I am in love with him. *smacks forehead* I forgot he has Yahoo... PLEASE don't let him see this! *prays*

Answer 1

It sounds like you're in love lol But it's ok, nothing abnormal, I went through those kinda phases once lol. The brother/sister love shows you two care about each other a lot, although it can also mean that your relationship should just stay as that- like friends. So it may seem quite odd, but don't worry, its a good sign that you two care and love each other. Even if you don't go out, you still have each other's love and even that's enough.

Answer 2

Your are just infatuated with him right now. Just ask yourself if you would really want to lose such a valuable friendship. I was friends with this great guy since we were both 5 years old. Twenty years later, he decided that he was going to make a move and didn't care what the cost was. I ended up losing my dearest friend in the world. We had a "brother-sister" kind of love for eachother too. I miss him a lot but we could never be the same. It has been almost 5 years since I talked to him.

Answer 3

No, no, no. Not everything revolves around love. You just like him and he's a good friend. Thay's Ok and its awesome to have a guy friend. Don't complicate it! It's also normal to think about him like that...if you think of your other friends like that. But dont become too addicted to the point of worshipping him. Also dont get clingy, because guys hate that. Just be the girl he met 10 months ago and made him say that he considers you more than a friend

Answer 4

"almost role-playing inside my head of situations" I do the same.. thing, i'd say ur in pretty much in " like " with his guy. U can depend on a guy just make sure u trust him enough. I wouldnt say ur not normal .. it happens to the best of us.. i just think u really like him.. u should try watching a movie together.. and see how things go..
good luck.

Answer 5

You are probly in love because a relationship starts out with friendship and ends up in love if you really like him you should go out with him.

Answer 6

Sounds like love to me. Try to ease off if he isn't interested. Maybe lack of your company will make him think he likes you more than a friend.

Answer 7

i think that your in love just focus your mind on something else or not hang out with him as much

Answer 8

Could be anything from love to infatuation, to 'hero worship'. Pay CLOSE attention to your fantasys. What EXACTLEY are they telling you?

Answer 9

You are in love with him. Be patient. Time will tell.

Answer 10

hmmm yes i think you do like him in that way