how long do you wait for forgivness?

Question

I acussed my partner of cheating, no it did not happen, it was a misunderstanding. The problem got blown out of perspective.

I have to give it time to be resolved we are still in love, just no affection, a hug know and then I think we are going to get tru this. Just not sure how long I should wait to try to make amends for what i did?

I talked to a freind that is also freinds with her and that with all the other stuff going on that we put that on the back burner for now. I'm doing little thing to show that I still love her and that I am not going anywhere. She said that it will take time day by day

Answer 1

If you have to wait then it's not coming.

Answer 2

I don't know the situation but depending on what happened it may take some time to accept and live with it but forgiveness should come immediately, however it needs to be resolved in some way as to not be thrown in your face in the future. If your willing enough to be honest and tell someone the wrong that happened they should be forgiving enough to give you the 2nd chance you deserve if your willing not to repeat the offense in the future

Answer 3

She should have unconditional love for you. Which means she needs to accept your apology for the misunderstanding and get on with life and stop punishing you for it. Who likes drama in their life anyways? And that's all it is. If she cannot forgive you for a misunderstanding perhaps you need to move on and find a good woman? She is leading you around on a leash here.

Answer 4

Don't wait. Take the reasonable steps to make amends and the rest is up to the other person. We cannot change what the other person thinks or feels. Wish the best for them. Think kind thoughts about them and focus on improving yourself so you don't make the same mistake again.

Answer 5

I guess it depends on what you did wrong !! If it was terribly wrong like cheating or something equally as bad it could be quite a while. You will have to prove to your partner that you are honestly remorseful for what you did and it will never happen again. Be an open book and tell him/her exactly and honestly what they need to know. Once you can prove yourself, you will be forgiven l am sure. Good luck

Answer 6

You can't make someone forgive you. You can ask for it, but you can't make them forgive you.
You don't say what you did that you need to be forgiven for.
Some things can be forgiven but never forgotten.

You just might have to walk away from the relationship and start fresh elsewhere. Learn a lesson from whatever it was that makes you want to be forgiven

Answer 7

I don't think there is an actual length of time. It just has to do with whether or not that person wants to continue the relationship or if you have the patience or desire to wait and work things out.

try contacting him/her and talking about it. If the both of you want to work things out, he/she will eventually talk to you.

Answer 8

Hmm if nothing happened why punish you?? I don't know the whole story and ..I know it would be unconfortable to be accused but heck we all make mistakes....
this is one of those things some couples goes thru sometimes...check yer jealousy...and relax and i'm sure it'll work out....

Answer 9

Immediately , God says you must forgive in your heart but you wont forget it and you are not supposed to keep bringing what happened up .

Answer 10

for what? cheating? u never should be forgivin