2006-12-25 12:03:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, it seems impossible to find someone decent..but I won't stop looking
2006-12-25 12:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by Lolitta 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's not hard to find someone after divorce,but it sure is hard to trust someone after it.Also it's hard to find a person that will fill the void inside you.You may find someone that is a pleasure to be with and would make a great partner but it takes time and allot of work to get to that point.Don't rush into anything to soon,your heart will lie to you early after a divorce or separation.
2006-12-25 12:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey I have officially been divorced for 2 years and cant seem to find the right one again. I dont know if it is that i am being way too picky this time around or if it just isnt right. Here i am on christmas, alone, at home, answering these questions about this, lol. Sorry that has been my experience
2006-12-25 12:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by Renita M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not hard to find but you have to look at what destroyed your previous marriage...Look within your heart...Never rush into another one..Always take your time...
Sometimes people are so picky what their potential mate should act like,,look like and that is how we fail...
Stop looking for when you do that is when the perfect one will come your way..If you too busy searching then you can overlook them...
Love yourself is the most important thing..How can we love others if we cant love who we are...But seriously,,look at why your other marriage failed and learn from your mistakes..Never ever compare them with your ex...That will destroy a relationship so fast...
Slow down,,God will bring them to ya...Enjoy life and be yourself..Remember,,you never know when you will meet the right one so make sure you are your true self...
God bless you
2006-12-25 12:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not difficult, but sometimes we get in such a rush because we want to be with someone that we often choose the wrong person. just check out anyone really good, no one is perfect but there are some flaws that people definitely can't live with. just take it slow get to know who u are dating before u make a commitment, but even if u don't find love right away don't give up on it, as he could be just around the corner, alot of women give up if they don't find Mr right , as soon as they begin dating.
2006-12-25 12:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not.short of jumping head first into a relationship,
i mean a serious one,you might concider just goin out to meet other people and have a good time. there is truth
in the belief that you must get right back on the horse
after falling off.
it takes time but it's quite possible.just remember u fell in love once did'nt u?
2006-12-25 12:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be - because you've been thru so much. You have to take one day at a time and try to not hold things against the new loves in your life. Let go of the past and go after your happiness. Good luck!!
2006-12-25 12:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most men and women I know it was not hard for them.their divorce still on the process.They already found a partner to marry.
2006-12-25 12:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure it can be if you let it. You've been hurt or did the hurting (maybe unintentional maybe not). Give it time when your heart is ready to love again it will tell you.
when I met my husband he said he would never fall in love again but he did, with me. He said he'd never tell another woman that he loved her, even if he loved her. He tells me he loves me.
2006-12-25 12:13:06 · answer #9 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not hard i am in love with a woman with 2 kids i would do anything for her but she is scared and i am just a Friend if i told you i was happy i am not but i will be there for her any way i can
2016-03-13 22:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋