I'm still married, in the process of a divorce, we both have moved on, but he says he wants to give it another shot. I may be up for it, but his current girlfriend is pregnant. What do I do?
2006-12-25 11:24:46 · 29 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's something you will have to decide for yourself. You will need to review why he's an ex to begin with, then you can decide if it's worth trying again, versus maybe a child having a live-in father. Good Luck.
2006-12-25 11:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf's ex said she was pregnant and one minute I said I can handle it because when she got pregnant we weren't together. But most baby mama's seem to like to throw the baby in the middle and cause confusion. That's what happened to me. Me and the girl were constantly arguing. I finally said I can't deal with this. This situation can truly turn very nasty. If you've moved on keep moving sweetie.
Oh a DNA test proved that wasn't his baby. You have a lot to think about. This is not an easy situation to be in. Good luck!
2006-12-25 11:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by Who is it? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have kids with him too let him go now, as he'll being paying child support to the other woman for the next 18 years.
If you have kids by him, then I'd still recommend thinking long and hard about going back to him. I guess a lot depends on why you split in the first place.
2006-12-25 11:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine all the baggage that you left him over plus now a new baby in the picture that isn't yours. I don't know what the issues were in the past but this will be even harder to overcome and he really needs to help this lady with the new baby. It didn't work before and whats the point of screwing up his chance of being a good father to this baby.
2006-12-25 11:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why no longer recommend in basic terms assembly them there? That way you could continuously go away or bypass your separate techniques if a controversy does start up. it may be effective to have his father there for the period of a holiday, yet do warn him that if something starts, you 2 are off to savour the fireworks mutually-with out the drama. maximum suitable of luck and cheers!
2016-10-18 23:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is trying to escape his responsibilities after getting her pregnant, i would not go back with him, he is a bad choice. and he will have to pay child support, this child will be in your life always, as well as the girlfriend. he made his bed and now doesn't want to sleep in it, instead he wants to run away, it flatters u that he wants u back, but just exactly why? i would think about that, life will not be easy for u, with all this baggage he has.
2006-12-25 12:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ls he really wanting you back because he loves you or just running away from his girlfriend? When you take him back, he will still be seeing his girlfriend because they have a child. lt's also his obligation to support the child.
lf you can fully accept the possible scenario, l suggest you give him another chance.
Good luck.
2006-12-25 11:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're into ALOT of drama I'd finish the divorce.
2006-12-25 11:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by chosen37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to be with him if he has a baby on the way. I mean think about it. You have been good thus far with out him in your life, why open the door for more heartache.
2006-12-25 11:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on as far away and as fast as you can! He has shown you his true colors, he does not deserve another chance.
2006-12-25 11:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by Kathy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋