I went out with my friends and my neighbor. I had a little bit to drink my neighbor knows that i married. When i was dancing with my friends he come and start dancing with me then next thing i know we were kissing i was shocked and told him it is not good for me to do that. But since then he doesn't seem to move on he keep calling me and telling me he is madly in love with me i don't know what to do, if my husband finds out, I am in big trouble
2006-12-25 11:18:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ignore the guy...even if he will try to tell ur husband something(i dont think he will dare)u should denial anything!!!tell ur husband the guy in in love and he try anything etc.be smart!!!
2006-12-25 12:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i dont think changing your number is an answer for this, considering the guy is your neighbor. If he wants to ruin your relationship, then he can come over any time to have a little chat with your husband. Try to talk to the guy first. Explain to him, you were drunk and it happened quickly and you didn't want it. Try to explain to him, that even tho u kissed him, you love your partner and dont want anything to ruin your relationship. If you see, that he still doesn't understand, and will still be causing you trouble, then it is better, if you tell your husband yourself, before him being told by someone else. He will be upset but he could also appreciate your honesty. I hope your marriage wont be ruined by one mistake, but make sure, it wont happen again. It is bad to cheat.
2006-12-25 19:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by Eli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that it's over, it was a fling, and you had a bit to drink. If he doesn't stop calling, then, I'm sorry, but your gonna have toell your husband that you kissed him. It was only a kiss,and he(husband) should understand. Your neighbor knows your married.
2006-12-25 19:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by Emma S. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call the phone company and ask them to block his number from calling you. And you'd better confess to hubby before the word gets around town. This guy will probably brad to his frineds and if your husband hears about it from someone else it'll be 100 times worse.
2006-12-25 19:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by aiguyaiguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think it was a bad idea that you kissed him to begin with girl! I would change your number and get rid of him...with him calling its just going to replay in your head over and over again- i would also tell your husband..although youll be in trouble it is always best to be truthful to him and yourself.
2006-12-25 19:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by Kablina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that he needs to respect your prior engagement with your husband, and that you shouldnt have crossed the line you did. Tell him, that he is just going to make matters worse for you in the long run, and you dont want to have to call closer to your friendship.
2006-12-25 19:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by Michael D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TELL ur husband before tht guy tells him...say u r sorry and tht u were drunk...he'll get mad and its gonna be tough..but it wud be better thn if he found out...and ull get to sleep at night =)
good luck
2006-12-25 19:20:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just keep saying no. it was a mistake. no need to make it worse by seeing this guy some more. just cut him off and do your best to move on
2006-12-25 20:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it happen again .Forget it and move on .
2006-12-25 19:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow the first answer ..
2006-12-25 19:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by horras 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋